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How To Fill In A Gap On Your Resume Due To Divorce

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In most cases, the process of divorce is painful and exhausting. It takes away a lot of time, energy, nerves, and money. It's not surprising that many women have to quit their jobs because they experience severe depression while going through a divorce. Fortunately, with the pass of time, the pain fades away, and life gets back to normal. One day, a woman feels that she is ready to start a new chapter. She decides to update her CV and apply for a job…If you have found yourself in this situation, you probably wonder how to fill in a large gap on your resume. Here are a few pieces of advice for you.

Don't Lie To Your Potential Employer

First of all, you should understand that your CV shouldn't contain any false statements. You should be honest and open with your potential employer. Everyone has a tough time sometimes, and you have nothing to hide.

It's a terrible idea to start a new life and a new professional relationship from a lie. Even if you get a job, one day your coworkers will discover the truth, and you will be ashamed.

Fortunately, with the pass of time, the pain fades away, and life gets back to normal. One day, a woman feels that she is ready to start a new chapter.

All you need to do now is to choose an appropriate resume format and structure it in the right way. It will help you to draw the recruiters' attention from the gap on your CV to your professional competency.

Choose A Functional Resume Format

If you have a large gap in work experience due to divorce, you should avoid using a chronological resume format. If you list the most recent job first, an interviewer will easily notice that you haven't been working for more than a year. It will make him doubt the fact that you have kept your skills and knowledge current.

The best choice for you is a functional resume format. It will allow you to list your previous jobs ignoring chronological order. You can start writing your resume by mentioning the most relevant skills and accomplishments to show that you are a perfect fit for the role.

When crafting a CV, you should focus on your core strengths and professional achievements. You should take the recruiter's attention away from the absence of recent experience and other weaknesses.

Write About Recently Acquired Skills

In any case, the employer will want to know what you have been doing during the last few months or years. For this reason, it's crucially important to explain how you have been developing your professional skills and talents. If you have been freelancing or volunteering in the fields related to the job you apply for, feel free to mention this experience in your CV. This is what many writing services for students recommend when helping graduates secure their first job. In fact, it also works well for explaining the gap on your resume and not only when we talk about first-time employment.

When crafting a CV, you should focus on your core strengths and professional achievements.

If you have recently taken classes online, or attended workshops, or participated in conferences, you can add this information to your resume. It will prove that you aspire to grow professionally.

Don't Mention The Exact Start And End Dates

You can make a gap on your resume looks smaller without lying to the employer. You just need to mention employment years and omit months.

Even if divorce resulted in a large gap in your employment history, it should not stop you from achieving your dream.

Let's imagine that you quit your job on February 1, 2018, and apply for a new job on March 1, 2019. The actual gap in your work experience is 13 months. But if you don't mention an exact date, when you left your previous work, it will seem that the gap is just two months (from December 2018 to March 2019).

Keep in mind that if you need to write a government resume, this trick will not work for you. If you are a federal employee, your resume must include exact start and end dates, average weekly hours, and responsibilities of the previous job.

Optimize Your Resume For ATS

Today, most companies use Applicant Tracking Systems (ATS). It's a software, which scans, collects and sorts thousands of resumes automatically. So if you want to increase your chances to get an interview, you should stuff your resume with the suitable keywords.

Also, it's crucially important to ensure that your resume is free from typos and spelling errors. If you misspell a keyword, ATS will skip your CV, and you will lose a chance to get a job of your dreams. For this reason, it's highly recommended to utilize reliable writing service or online grammar checker to correct all mistakes.

In Conclusion

Even if divorce resulted in a large gap in your employment history, it should not stop you from achieving your dream. All you need to do now is to position yourself in the most favorable light when writing a resume. Follow the examples given, and you will win the recruiters' attention. And please, remember one important thing: divorce isn't the end of your life, it's the end of the dysfunctional marriage only. It's your time to turn the page and start everything over. Now you can get a job and accomplish your ambitious career goals.

This article was originally published June 5, 2019.

Creative DIY Tips for Making Your Own Calendar

The current state of the world definitely affected us in many ways, it made us stay locked up in our homes away from all the social events and seemingly fun stuff. But the responsibilities didn't just vanish into thin air, they are still there, waiting to be organized and prepared. Times are super hectic and you are probably not in the mood to think about the foreseeable future, but there are ways to turn in into a fun time. Starting a journal or making a simple calendar can bring you peace, use that creative time to yourself and relax while doing it. Grab your colored pencils, stickers, scraps, and everything in between, your inner DIY queen is about to jump out!

Fill in the blank

So probably the easiest way to start when it comes to making your own calendar is by simply printing a blank template found online. This way you'll have a base, a blank canvas if you will. Take all the materials that you have in your house, like washi tapes, sticky notes, glittery colorful pens and anything you can think of that could work as a decoration on your calendar. And go at it! There are no rules when it comes to decorating, it's super personal and it can differ from person to person.

The only real advice you'll need is to leave some space while decorating, don't overdo it since it will clutter and distract you from the written parts. Finding the perfect template that will suit your aesthetic is extremely easy and fast, a simple google search could get you whatever you want and the best part is, it's free! There are many printable options out there, so don't worry about not finding something you'd like, the possibilities are endless and you'll find just the right calendar you imagined!

Start from scratch

If you don't have a printer at home or you're just determined to make the calendar yourself, there are awesome ways to make the best and most unique personalized calendar there is. This gives you the full freedom to do whatever you can think of, want to make a calendar from old newspapers, do it! Want to cut out a certain shape and disguise the calendar as an art piece in your kitchen, why not?

Nothing is stopping you when it comes to unleashing your creative side, use everything that you can get your hands on, think outside the box, don't be afraid to experiment. Making a calendar from scratch is an amazing opportunity to explore your artistic side, especially if you've been busy with work and responsibilities. This is a great excuse to do something creative, at the end of the day you are making it for the purpose of being more organized and having everything mapped out and planned. So make this time, the best time possible, be free and create!

Mix and match

Since there are absolutely no rules when making any diy project at home, what's stopping you from making the ultimate, super personal calendar! If you have basic knowledge in photoshop, you can even modify the blank calendars you got online, add pictures of your loved ones and family, maybe your pets or anything you like, and then print it out. Or you can print the blank template right away and add pictures or polaroids later on by using some washi tape.

Also, you can even paint over the printed blank calendar, this is a good option for those who aren't as skilled, so you'll have a base to start, just dip in your paintbrush in some acrylic or watercolor paints (or whatever you have around the house) and go for it. This is a great way to start doing artsy projects while still having some form of direction and help.

Have fun

Sure keeping your priorities at bay and making plans and notes for everything is important...but the heart of this project has to be your willingness to turn something as boring and blank as a calendar into something spectacular. This calendar should proudly be up on your kitchen wall, so loud and colorful it just draws your attention to it.

If the calendar is decorated, personalized, and fun to look at, maybe it will inspire you to look forward to some events or responsibilities even if you didn't feel like it in the first place. So be creative and free, there are no rules so just go at it. With everything that happened this year, try to be positive and find little joys in seemingly insignificant things like diy calendars!