Why I Broke Out Of The Corporate World To Spend My Life Empowering Women

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In January 2015, I reached a pivotal point in my life.

I had always dreamed of creating an international career working in business, traveling the world, meeting with interesting people, and making deals happen. However, the reality was I felt stuck in my job, working in corporate finance with no clear, let alone exciting, path ahead.

I knew I had to make a change but wasn't sure what my next step should be. So I made some bold moves and flew to Toronto to attend an intensive personal growth conference which proved to be life-changing.

Over the next 12 months, I made some even bolder decisions, I moved to London, reinvented myself and my career, and began working in a global advisory firm — traveling from Singapore to Sydney or Dubai to Delhi, advising CEOs on billion-dollar deals.

I had achieved my goals and become this great success on paper. I went from a small-town girl raised in Southern Ireland to a noted rising leader working at the heart of the finance industry. I was living proof that it doesn't matter where you come from, it only matters where you're going.

However, despite all this excitement, something wasn't right. Again, that feeling arose; I knew I had to make a change.

The one constant throughout my career, whether I was walking into bank meetings in Nigeria or meeting with advisors in New York, was that when I looked around, I found that I was the only woman in the room, again.

I was forced to adapt to an unwelcoming environment, in which I always felt out of place. Because of this, I quickly learned how to build unshakable self-confidence, influence global leaders and CEOs, and be successful even when it felt like the odds were stacked against me.

My career was accelerating and the path ahead to partnership looked clear.

However, in 2017, two years after that first pivotal moment in my life, those stirrings of change within me found a new direction. While sitting in a dimly lit event hall at a Bloomberg Women in Finance Summit in East London, one simple sentence shook me to my core: "At the current rate of progress, it will take 120 years for us to achieve gender equality."

At that moment, my entire career trajectory changed; I knew I had to do something to make a difference. I just couldn't accept that in the 21st century, women were still being held back for no other reason than their gender.

The path ahead was an uncertain one.

I began searching for ways to make a real difference for women. I didn't want to let them just sit at their desks and fall into the lip service that many diversity and inclusion initiatives have become.

My journey was certainly not a smooth one — there was a lot of push back at times — but it was one that brought undeniable lessons, incredible opportunities for growth, and set the path for what would ultimately become the foundation of my very own business.

Along the way, I co-chaired the Women's Network highlighting the profitability of parity in the workplace, I worked with senior leadership to influence their minds and awaken them to the reality of the imbalance that existed, often taking quite unconventional approaches to do so. One of my favorite methods was inviting senior male leaders to women's networking events at various banks around the city under the guise of a business networking event. This at least allowed them to walk in the shoes of a corporate woman for an evening and open their eyes to the fact that numbers really matter.

I mentored women in my company and across the finance industry to support them in their career progressions, using all the skills I had learned from my time working with personal development leaders over the years and the strategies I had developed to be successful as a woman in business.

All these efforts culminated with being recognized by the Financial Times as a Top 20 Future Female Leader and Yahoo! Finance as a Global Champion for Women in Business. I never sought out these awards, but the recognition enabled me to elevate the conversation to a global level and realize that this desire for change had truly become my mission in life.

My passion for supporting women and driving forward gender equality eventually became the driving force behind launching my own coaching business, committing full time to supporting women in business globally, whether they want to accelerate in their corporate career or breakout and turn their ideas into a successful business as I have done.

I continue to be a passionate advocate of women empowerment — supporting women in business and entrepreneurs. My desire to share this message with the greatest possible impact led me to retrain as a professional speaker, which has taken me around the world to speak on international stages including at Forbes Under 30 on the topic of entrepreneurship and gender inequality in business.

I work with women around the globe, from London to New York and Nigeria to New Zealand, all with the sole mission of enabling these ambitious women to express their highest potential, be it through accelerating in their career or stepping out of the corporate world to turn their idea into a business.

All of this was proof again, that it doesn't matter where you come from, it only matters where you're going. And I know I'm going the right way for me and for all women.

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Judge Tanya Acker On Overcoming Racial Barriers And Her Rise To The Top

You may recognize Judge, Tanya Acker, from her political and legal commentary on different networks and shows like Good Morning America, The Talk, Wendy Williams, CNN Reports or The Insider. Acker is more than an experienced commentator. She is also a Judge on the fifth season of Emmy nominated CBS show, Hot Bench.

The show, created by Judge Judy, is a new take on the court genre. Alongside Acker, are two other judges: Patricia DiMango and Michael Corriero. Together the three-panel judges take viewers inside the courtroom and into their chambers. “I feel like my responsibility on the show is, to be honest, fair, [and] to try and give people a just and equitable result," Acker says. She is accomplished, honest and especially passionate about her career. In fact, Acker likes the fact that she is able to help people solve problems. “I think that efficient ways of solving disputes are really at the core of modern life.

“We are a very diverse community [with] different values, backgrounds [and] beliefs. It's inevitable that we're going to find ourselves in some conflicts. I enjoy being a part of a process where you can help resolve the conflicts and diffuse them," she explains.

Acker's career has been built around key moments and professional experiences in her life. Particularly, her time working right after college impacted the type of legal work she takes on now.

Shaping Her Career

Acker didn't foresee doing this kind of work on television when she was in college at either Howard University or Yale Law. “I was really open in college about what would happen next," Acker comments. “In fact, I deliberately chose a major (English) that wouldn't lock me into anything [because] I wanted to keep all of my options open." Her inevitable success on the show and throughout her career is an example of that. In fact, after graduating from Yale, Acker served as a judicial law clerk to Judge Dorothy Nelson who sits on the Ninth U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals.

It was not only her first job out of law school but also one of the formative experiences of her professional life. “[Judge Nelson is] certainly, if not my most important professional influence," Acker says. “She is really the living embodiment of justice, fairness, and believes in being faithful to the letter and the spirit of the law," she exclaims. “She delivers it all with a lot of love." Judge Nelson is still on the bench and is continuing to work through her Foundation: The Western Justice Center in Pasadena, California, where Acker serves on the board. The foundation helps people seeking alternative ways of resolving their disputes instead of going to court.

"I enjoy being a part of a process where you can help resolve the conflicts and diffuse them," she explains.

“It was important to her to try and create platforms for people to resolve conflict outside of court because court takes a long time," Acker explains. “I'm proud to be a part of that work and to sit on that board."

After her clerkship, she was awarded a Bristow Fellowship and continued building her career. Outside of the fellowship, Acker's legal work incorporated a broad variety of matters from civil litigation, constitutional cases, business counseling, and advising. One of her most memorable moments was representing a group of homeless people against the city. “They were being fought for vagrancy and our defense was, they had no place to go," she shares.

As part of her pro bono work, Acker was awarded the ACLU's First Amendment Award for her success with the case. Though, she has a hard time choosing from one of many memorable moments on Hot Bench. Acker does share a few of the things that matter to her. “Our show is really drawn from a cross-section of courtrooms across America and the chance to engage with such a diverse group of people really means a lot to me," she discusses.

How Did Acker Become A Judge?

In addition to Judge Nelson, Judge Judy is certainly among her top professional influences. “I think it's incredible [and] I feel very lucky that my professional career has been bookended by these incredible judges," she acclaims. “I've really learned a lot from Judy about this job, doing this kind of job on television." Before Acker was selected for Hot Bench, she hadn't been a judge. It was Judge Judy who recommended that she get some experience. Acker briefly comments on her first experience as a temporary judge on a volunteer basis in traffic court. “I was happy to be able to have the chance to kind of get a feel for it before we started doing the show," she comments. “Judy is a wonderful, kind, generous person [and] she's taught me quite a lot. I feel lucky."

Judge Acker in white pantsuit with her dog. Photo Courtesy of Annie Shak.

Acker's Time Away From Home

Outside of Hot Bench, Acker took recent trips to Haiti and Alabama. They were memorable and meaningful.

Haiti, in particular, was the first trip she excitedly talks about. She did some work there in an orphanage as part of LOVE Takes Root, an organization that is driven to help children around the world whether it's basic aid or education. “Haiti has a special place in my heart," she began. “As a person who's descended from enslaved people, I have a lot of honor and reverence for a country that threw off the shackles of slavery."

She was intrigued by the history of Haiti. Especially regarding the communities, corrupt government and natural disasters. “They really had to endure a lot, but I tell you this when I was there, I saw people who were more elegant, dignified, gracious and generous as any group of people I've ever met anywhere in the world," she goes on. “I think it left me with was a strong sense of how you can be graceful and elegant under fire." Acker is optimistic about the country's overall growth and success.

“[Judge Nelson is] certainly, if not my most important professional influence," Acker says. “She is really the living embodiment of justice, fairness, and believes in being faithful to the letter and the spirit of the law."

“There are certainly times when people treated me differently or made assumptions about me because I was a black woman," Acker says. “I've got it much better, but that doesn't mean it's perfect...it certainly isn't, but you just have to keep it moving."

Her other trip was different in more ways than one. She traveled there for the first time with her mother as part of a get out to vote effort, that Alabama's First black House Minority Leader, Anthony Daniels was organizing. “It was incredible to take that trip with her [and] I've got to tell you, the South of today is not the South of my mother's upbringing," she explains. Originally from Mississippi, Acker's mother hasn't been back in the South since 1952. “Every place has a ways to go, but it was a really exciting trip [and] it was nice for me to connect with that part of the country and that part of my history."

Overcoming Racial Barriers

As a black woman, Acker has certainly faced challenges based on her race and gender. But it doesn't define who she is or what she can accomplish. “There are certainly times when people treated me differently or made assumptions about me because I was a black woman," she says. “There's no sort of barrier that someone would attempt to impose upon me that they didn't attempt to impose on my mother, grandmother or great-grandmother." In a space where disparity is sometimes apparent, she recognizes that there is no barrier someone would try to impose on her that they didn't attempt to impose on her mother or grandmothers. “I've got it much better, but that doesn't mean it's perfect...it certainly isn't, but you just have to keep it moving," Acker states. The conversation continues truthfully and seriously. Acker shares what it can be like for black women, specifically. “I think we're underestimated and we can be disrespected, whereas other folks are allowed the freedom to enjoy a full range of emotions and feelings," she articulates.

At times black women are often restricted from expressing themselves. “If someone wants to make an assumption or jump to a conclusion about me because of my race or gender, that's on them, but their assumptions aren't going to define me," Acker declares. “If something makes me angry or happy I will express that and if someone wants to caricature me, that's their pigeonholing; that's not my problem." A lifelong lesson she learned and shared is to not let other people define who you are. It is one of three bits of wisdom.

Three Pieces Of Advice From Judge Acker

The Power Of Self-awareness

“It's really important that you have a really firm sense of what you want to do and be, and how you're moving in the world because when people try to sway you, judge you or steer you off course you've got to have some basis for getting back on track."

Know Your Support System

“Have a strong community of people who you trust, love and who love you," she advises. “But also learn to love and trust yourself because sometimes it's your own voice that can provide you the most comfort or solace in something."

Learn From Your Experiences

“Trust yourself. Take care of yourself. Don't be too hard on yourself. Be honest with yourself.

“There are times when it's not enough to say this is who I am. Take it or leave it. Sometimes we've got things that we need to work on, change or improve upon," she concludes.

Acker stands out not only because of her accomplishments, but the way she views certain aspects of her life. These days, she's comfortable accepting what makes her different. “I think there's a time when you're younger when conformity feels comfortable, [but] I'm comfortable these days not conforming," she laughs. She enjoys being a decision maker and helping people work through it on Hot Bench.

This article was originally published May 15, 2019.