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From Global Leaders: 17 Useful Reminders Every Entrepreneur Needs To Hear

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This past week, more than 5,000 professionals from around the globe gathered at the Synergy Global Forum, "A Masterclass in Disruption," in New York to network and listen to some of the most forward-thinking minds of our times. The conference, of Eastern European origin, was held this time at Madison Square Garden. It was originally launched in 2015, and this year marked the first time it was held on American soil.


Throughout the two-day conference, themes ranged from the future of tech to the obliteration of institutional pillars of society, and some of the headliners included The Wolf of Wall St. himself, Jordan Belfort; Malcolm Gladwell, Robin Wright and Virgin Founder, Richard Branson. Despite there being many brilliant talks covering a number of noteworthy issues, an undercurrent emerged; that in today's world of commoditized information, there are certain values that the next generation of success stories must adhere to. Among them; empathy, humility and philanthropy. But perhaps the standout was the fact we need to start correcting the mistakes of the past using cutting-edge technology, rather than just continuing to build businesses and rich CEOs.

The event's afterparty, which was held at the Hammerstein Ballroom and featured Paris Hilton as a costumed DJ (after all, it was Halloween weekend), had a decidedly quirky vibe. A mismatched crowd of Halloweeners who paid to see the heiress on the decks, and suited conference goers stomped the old ballroom until the wee hours. With the Saturday talks beginning early, it meant for quite a few sore-headed early risers.

Below, we've rounded up some essential takeaways from the future-forward conference on everything from sales, to tech, to the power of the branding in this age of copycat businesses.

Richard Branson. Photo courtesy of Brooklyn Eagle

1. Choose optimism

Given the recent headlines, it's not hard to be all gloom and doom these days, but according to media mogul, Gary Vaynerchuk, choosing optimism can make all the difference for future success. He went on to say that if you're one of the people thinking on the bright side of things you have a leg up when it comes to launching a business and even dealing with others. “People default to cynicism," he told the crowd. “I always believe I'm going to win even when I lose."

2. There's only one currency: attention

“We're all battling for attention," said Vaynerchuk, also emphasizing the importance of creating mobile-first content. One of the first to pioneer email marketing, Vaynerchuk said that in order to keep top of mind, you have to embrace all options at your disposal, including whatever platforms are new and still untested. The media are great advocates for “buying underpriced attention" and forgetting the common misconception that being “completely organic" in your audience reach matters.

“When it's not so easy, that's when you figure out who you are."

-Gary Vaynerchuk

3. Brand bold, brand hard

Richard Branson attributes the success of Virgin to his emboldened (and life-threatening) branding devices. When you live in an era of copycat businesses - what makes your business different from others if it serves exactly the same purpose. Take for example Lyft and Uber, or Birchbox and Glossybox - it's your ideas, your profile, that defines your brand. With this in mind, Branson has made some whimsical and frankly crazy, branding decisions to promote Virgin. Not in the least, this hilarious stunt poking fun at British Airways inability to get the The London Eye off the ground, that lead to the viral headline, “BA Can't Get It Up."

4. It's not a race

Everyone wants to invent something that will make their brand go viral overnight. Not so, said Vaynerchuk, adding that entrepreneurs need to stop “thinking in 50-day terms" and instead think of the big picture. “Life is long and doing the right thing matters.", he said reiterating the importance of giving back.

"Nothing really happens until someone sells something - no matter what business you're in,"

-Jordan Belfort

5. “The internet of things" is the next big revolution

OK so we all know about Alexa, but did you know that more of our everyday items are on their way to becoming smarter? A few of the speakers referenced the fact that we are moving towards intuitive automation in a way that will fuse seamlessly into our lives. “Within five years everyone will be interacting with an AI voice," said Vaynerchuk.

6. Emotional intelligence is most valuable

In an age where access to information is becoming commoditized, a creative mind has never been more important. “We're in between the real world and the digital world," Vaynerchuk said, adding that there is no alternative for good old fashioned ethics, empathy and hard work. “Doing the right thing is always the right thing."

The Future Of The Tech Revolution Panel

7. And speaking of emotion, sales is basically just a transfer of emotion

According to the events salesmen du jour, Belfort, “at its highest level sales is just a transference of emotion." famously jailed for money laundering and securities fraud, Belfort happens to know a thing or two about the emotion of selling, whether over the phone, online or in person. Building trust has evolved as with everything in marketing. The basic principles are still there, but the devices to garner trust have shifted. Now, brands begin by utilizing Snapchat and Instagram to create a feeling of good faith, because 85 percent of millennials will buy only from people they trust. “If they don't trust you - will they buy your stuff?" asked Belfort. “No fuckin' way!"

"If you see a situation where something isn't being done well by other people - you jump in and you try to sort it out,"

-Richard Branson

Amanda Cerny

8. Bitcoin -v- the banks? Banks will lose

Banking is on its way out, according to Jennifer Fonstad, who believes the recent buzz around Bitcoin doesn't bode well for financial institutions. Per the above, trust in brands is defining the millennial generation - and having grown up in the era of the Great Recession, where the mistakes of the big banks have changed the course of the last two decades, we would hazard a guess Fonstad is on the button here.

9. Don't stay "romantic"

What got you here won't get you there. “So many of you try and hold on to what made you money and you make excuses about why something new won't work," said Vaynerchuk, who implored audience members to keep reinventing themselves, and their businesses as technology continues to evolve.“You have to love getting dirty." He said that despite many being afraid of social media. You have to be on social media but you have to be smart about it, "It's a race between Facebook and Instagram."

10. College is the next vestigial organ

One recurring theme of the day was the fact that college institutions are on the verge of becoming obsolete. Repeated by no less than three speakers including Naveen Jain, Richard Branson and Malcolm Gladwell, we thought the notion was best summarized in the following words: “The world we live in today is the reason for chronic unemployment. We need an education system that teaches to learn to learn," said Jain.

He went on to explain how, in a four-year college degree, a student will no doubt emerge well-educated, but that education will be rendered useless because of the pace of informational substance today. What's relevant at 3pm on a Monday in 2017 can become completely ineffectual by noon on Tuesday, thus rendering the purpose of college as it is today, obsolete.

11. Reputation is everything (of course we already knew that, right?)

But did we forget? “You live your life on record," reminds Vaynerchuk. “Every action is being seen." It might seem obvious, but he went on to say that because we live so much of our lives on mobile we may forget that everything is being monitored, saved and tracked. “What people say about you behind your back is more important than what they say in from of you," said Vaynerchuk. “Your reputation is your brand."

12. We should be playing soccer, not basketball

When Wall Street billionaire John Paulson gave a $400 million dollar grant to Harvard, esteemed journalist and thought-leader Malcolm Gladwell had a lot to say about it. Among the choice tweets he sent- to point out the ridiculousness of putting more money into the wealthiest college in our country- our personal favorite was “If billionaires don't step up, Harvard will soon be down to its last $30 billion." He went on to say that, as a society, we need to be put more funding towards at-risk and marginalized communities. He used a sports analogy to illustrate his point, that in basketball a team only needs a few top players to win every game, but in soccer, every player is crucial for victory. “We're giving more amenities to the wealthy to make an already amazing life even more amazing. We're not thinking there are people suffering," said Gladwell. “What direction are we heading in as a society?"

13. Space may become Main Street

Richard Branson, Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos are in a tight race to get the first group of non-astronauts (aka the neighbourhood doctor, your girlfriend, the local bodega cashier) up to space. And Branson, despite setbacks and an extended timeline, is confident that by the end of next year he will get the first group of 500 people up in space. “We're the only space line that has a ship in the shape of an airplane," remarked Branson, which ultimately means that when the astros are returning to earth they won't have to parachute back - they will land on wheels. This serves to make infinite the possibilities for people wishing to go.

“We strengthen ourselves by strengthening our weakest link."

-Malcolm Gladwell

14. Hackers are as good, if not better, than us.

The game has changed. And people like Edward Snowden, who had gambling issues among other personality deficiencies, have access. Breaches in the digital age are a serious concern said Gladwell, adding that because of the sheer number of people in our country with security clearance: 845K to be exact, there's a new set of rules. “A generation ago the job of national security was to monitor a very small number of key players, now the job is to monitor everyone, down to and including people on the very very lowest rung. People who wouldn't show up on any organization chart, people who are so junior that they've been fired a few times, have massive behavioral issues and we don't even know why they have security clearance but they do."

Additionally, hackers are innate at networking among themselves, where government agencies have a tendency to fight with each other over information and data sharing.

15. The self-driving car will break the market, no matter the risks

“Change is always scary for the human condition so it will always be two steps forward, one step back. Putting a device in your brain will terrify some people but what may seem scary at first will eventually be an opportunity," Jennifer Fonstad commented. We're conditioned to be skeptical about change, but advancements will always trump skepticism. Branson too harkened back to the cautionary tale of Concorde. “The demise of Concorde was, for the first time in history, technology going backward," he said - admonishing the idea of scare tactics when it comes to change. Yes, it will be scary, but it will also be worth it.

16. “We all make mistakes"

From Belfort to Branson everyone was instructing the crowds to embrace their mistakes. “What I learned in that fail paved the way for every success I've had," said Belfort, who is a veritable expert on overcoming his past errors to create a better future (cue: two novels and a blockbuster movie). Branson is also no stranger to mistakes. In 1998 he made the mistake of going up against Coca-Cola with his Virgin Cola and was immediately squashed by the giants when he arrived in the U.S to promote his contender.

17. "The world is your market"

In the age of the internet, Instagram, and target geographical marketing - “there are no borders," said Branson. In this way, entrepreneurs are at a huge advantage over the likes of Branson who started off with no internet and when the government had a controlling stake in all of the big enterprises in Britain. Your reach is infinite and your product can go anywhere. “Us entrepreneurs, we don't see borders," Branson told the crowd. "We see this world as one world, and we see people as one people."

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Tempted To Dial Your Ex: 5 Ways To Know Whether Or Not You Should Contact An Old Flame

Thinking of ringing up your ex during these uncertain times? Maybe you want an excuse to contact your ex, or maybe you genuinely feel the need to connect with someone on an emotional level. As a matchmaker and relationship expert, I was surprised at the start of the coronavirus quarantine when friends were telling me that they were contacting their exes! But as social distancing has grown to be more than a short-term situation, we must avoid seeking short-term solutions—and resist the urge to dial an ex.

It stands to reason that you would contact an ex for support. After all, who knows you and your fears better than an ex? This all translates into someone who you think can provide comfort and support. As a matchmaker, I already know that people can spark and ignite relationships virtually that can lead to offline love, but lonely singles didn't necessarily believe this or understand this initially, which drives them straight back to a familiar ex. You only need to tune into Love Is Blind to test this theory or look to Dina Lohan and her virtual boyfriend.

At the start of lockdown, singles were already feeling lonely. There were studies that said as much as 3 out of 4 people were lonely, and that was before lockdown. Singles were worried that dating someone was going to be off limits for a very long time. Now when you factor in a widespread pandemic and the psychological impact that hits when you have to be in isolation and can't see anyone but your takeout delivery person, we end up understanding this urge to contact an ex.

So, what should you do if you are tempted to ring up an old flame? How do you know if it's the wrong thing or the right thing to do in a time like this? Check out a few of my points before deciding on picking up that phone to text, much less call an ex.

Before You Dial The Ex...

First, you need to phone a friend! It's the person that got you through this breakup to begin with. Let them remind you of the good, the bad and the ugly before taking this first step and risk getting sucked back in.

What was the reason for your breakup? As I mentioned before, you could get sucked back in… but that might not be a bad thing. It depends; when you phoned that friend to remind you, did she remind you of good or bad things during the breakup? It's possible that you both just had to take jobs in different cities, and the breakup wasn't due to a problem in the relationship. Have these problems resolved if there were issues?

You want to come from a good place of reflection and not let bad habits make the choice for you.

Depending on the reason for the breakup, set your boundaries for how much contact beforehand. If there was abuse or toxic behaviors in the relationship, don't even go there. You can't afford to repeat this relationship again.

If you know you shouldn't be contacting this ex but feel lonely, set up a support system ahead of time. Set up activities or things to fall back on to resist the urge. Maybe you phone a different friend, join a virtual happy hour for singles, or binge watch Netflix. Anything else is acceptable, but don't phone that ex.

Write down your reasons for wanting to contact the ex. Ask yourself if this is worth the pain. Are you flea-bagging again, or is there a friendship to be had, which will provide you with genuine comfort? If it's the latter, it's okay to go there. If it's an excuse to go back together and make contact, don't.

Decide how far you are willing to take the relationship this time, without it being a rinse and repeat. If you broke up for reasons beyond your control, it's okay. If your ex was a serial cheater, phone a friend instead.

If there was abuse or toxic behaviors in the relationship, don't even go there. You can't afford to repeat this relationship again.

As life returns to a more normal state and you adjust to the new normal, we will slowly begin to notice more balance in our lives. You want to come from a good place of reflection and not let bad habits make the choice for you. Some do's and don'ts for this time would be:

  • Do: exercise ⁠— taking care of you is important during this time. It's self-care and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
  • Do: shower, brush your teeth, and get out of your sweats.
  • Don't: be a couch potato.
  • Don't: drink or eat excessively during this time. Again, remember to maintain a healthy lifestyle.
  • Do: think positive thoughts everyday and write down the 3 things you are grateful for. Look at the impact of John Krasinksi's SGN. It's uplifting and when you feel good, you won't want to slide backwards.
  • Don't: contact a toxic ex. It's a backward move in a moment of uncertainty that could have a long term impact. Why continue flea bagging yourself?