You're engaged, now what?
Technology is revolutionizing the way business is done, and the wedding industry is no exception. From Pinterest boards of their dream weddings, to following their favorite social influencer when she gets married, to tagging friends in posts of videos and pictures of their wedding inspirations, you can ditch the wedding planning binders, and simply plan your wedding online! here are so many things you can add to your wedding plans. As a starting point to this new adventure, you can consider wedding engagement signs. They are fashionable and will leave a great memory.
Millennials account for nearly 77 billion people, are a larger group than the Baby Boomers, and over twice the size of Generation X. For a business owner, this is a huge target market! With almost all of them on at least one social media platform, the expectation for on-demand service is higher than ever. The leading generation is becoming more dependent on technology as it advances. Luckily, companies have found a niche that used to never exist – wedding technology to suit millennial couples!
Here are some of the technologies that are changing the wedding industry:
Wedspire - By catering to those who expect instantaneous service, Wedspire has found a way to take the stress out of your wedding planning. Imagine that Pinterest created a customized wedding-inspiration feed based on your style, taste and budget. Take that magical feed and transform it into a personalized Netflix-style listing that shows you the best options tailored for you. All you have to do is click "add to cart." That's Wedspire - a unique wedding planning platform that revolutionizes the wedding planning game. From your Wedding Planner to your veil, every detail matters and is available for purchase in one place. Wedspire helps turn couples' ideas into reality.
Aisle Planner - The ultimate wedding planning organizer down to every detail. Wedding planners have taken a step away from the traditional binder or pen and notebook. They're finding comfort in applications like Aisle Planner as they navigate their way through their newlywed's wedding-planning process. From planning, to design, to business to collaboration tools, Planners are at ease with using an application to stay organized. The organization of an application makes sharing ideas, images, and files that much easier!
Zola - An all inclusive site for your registry needs! There is now no need to wait in line at your local department store and then walk throughout the store scanning items you want your guests to buy when you can simply choose directly on your phone or computer. From household items to honeymoon experiences, you can choose from a vast number of offerings all in one place. Well-known brands such as Kate Spade, KitchenAid, and Nespresso are listed on the site, making for an easily-accessible list that caters to all needs, wants, and styles. Zola also gives guests the “Group Gifting" option for those wanting to all contribute to one gift. With the craze of splitting the cost electronically, millennials love the personalized attributes of this wedding registry platform.
Menguin - For the guys who are always on the go, Menguin is for the modern groom and groomsmen who enjoy customization. Menguin is the highest-rated online suit and tux rental company on the market. With affordable prices and the ability to customize a look from the tie to socks, what else could a guy need? Menguin was founded to fix the frustration born from the time-consuming tux rentals and unflattering fits. With the wide variety of colors and fabric swatches, fast turnaround time, 24/7 customer service, and a satisfaction-guaranteed model, Menguin suits the needs for the modern millennial, pun intended!
Weddington Way - a collaborative shopping experience with the largest assortment of bridal fashion available online, Weddington Way is becoming a household name. It is now the fastest growing e-commerce business in the $100 billion-dollar wedding industry. The site is a collaborative shopping experience for wedding parties in which bridal parties can browse the largest assortment of bridal fashion available online, then discuss the products in a virtual showroom. Weddington Way is differentiated from others in the market, both e-commerce and brick-and-mortar. By offering this collaborative and personalized experience, as well as the ready-to-wear dresses, Weddington Way hits the nail on the head for what millennial brides are seeking.
Minted - an ever-growing design marketplace with an emphasis on crowd-sourcing, Minted takes a new approach to providing stationary options online. It has countless customizable designs created by their community of independent artists. They have built their art, home decor, and stationery business through crowd-sourcing. “We believe that great design lives and thrives in the hands of independent artists who people do not have access to through traditional retailers. Minted uses technology to allow consumers to discover great creative talent, making Minted a place where artists can learn, gain exposure, and build their businesses." - Mariam Naficy, founder of Minted. The steps on how they curate their products are simple but effective.
UberEVENTS - Forget coordinating buses and coaches on your big day. Uber has revolutionized the transportation for weddings and events. UberEVENTS is a division of Uber dedicated to events and weddings that allow you to pay for and schedule where, when and how your guests travel during your special day. The only thing they have to worry about is having a great time celebrating your big day. The best part? You only pay for the rides you use.
Wedding Drones - The photographer's newest friend and the wedding industry's newest fad! Millennials love to stay on top of the trends and set themselves apart from their friends when it comes to planning their special day. Many contemplate adding a drone to their expenses, since the resultant imagery is spectacular. Drones are all the craze and can assist in getting aerial shots that your professional photographer might not be able to reach. Views of the venue from high above, a picture of all your guests simultaneously, and a scenic bride-and-groom shot are always crowdpleasers! We advise that you communicate with your photographer to ensure the drone driver has a plan in place so it doesn't disrupt your ceremony. Drone Insurance is recommended though, since the unmanned aerial vehicle runs the risk of causing damages. All in all, have a safety plan in place, encourage clear communication between the photographer and drone driver, and have insurance to make sure all goes smoothly on your special day.
The ability for technology to be at our fingertips, tending to our every need is astounding. These Wed-Tech companies have found ways to better our communication, organization, and execution of wedding planning countless ways. Planning your wedding can be a daunting task but by using Wed-Tech, you will find that there are endless opportunities to create the wedding of your dreams, with a less stressful process.
Yes, there is a G-spot. Of course there's a G-spot.
There's always been a G-spot.
And while we're on the subject, it's not a spot. It's not a little button or dot. It's an area. While we're on the subject, we really should rename it all together. A man “discovered it." Uh, huh. And he named it after himself. Of course. But I digress. The point is, the G-spot very much exists.
How do I know? Because I've touched my share of them. I've touched them and stimulated them, and the women to whom those G-spots belonged had delicious orgasms from the said touching of them. Ask them. Go ahead. You don't have to believe me because the G-spot is not the Easter Bunny or Santa Claus or even God for that matter. It's not something to “believe in." It's something that exists because it's there and you can touch it.
As the author of two books on women's sexuality, “O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm" and “The Ultimate Guide to Solo Sex," I have talked to hundreds of women; researched and spoken to the experts; and read, read, read everything I could get my hands on. I know the G-spot exists because it exists. That is how you know something exists. You do not however, deny the existence of something because, well, it's self-serving.
And in case you're thinking, “You've written some sex books and slept with some women. You're no doctor." You're right. But Juliana Morris, PhD, LMFT, LPC is. She's a credentialed therapist, academic, and a bona fide (s)expert, with decades of experience “counseling and supporting thousands of individuals and couples on their paths to discover and own their sexual agency."
Her thoughts on the G-Spot? “Yes, it exists. Better stated….every (biologically identified) woman has the potential for pleasure in an area within her vaginal cavity. That is how I describe it. An area of potential. I am confident it exists because of hundreds of interviews and work with women. Women who have experienced pleasure in an area within her 'accidently,' women who have made purposeful efforts to find pleasure in this area as a solo or partnered endeavor using specific techniques to maximize the potential of pleasure for her and hearing both groups describe the difference of pleasure from other orgasmic experiences."
The fact that some folks who have the audacity to call themselves “researchers" when they only had thirteen women in their study – THIRTEEN – decided there is no G-spot because they couldn't find one is idiocy. I have touched more than thirteen of them personally. Just all by myself, no research study – OR DOLLARS – required. Morris adds, “That study is inaccurate and is inherently flawed. In large part because of the belief that it functions like other pleasure organs. Mainly, however, because it is asking the wrong questions and using inadequate parameters to prove or disprove it."
I'll tell you what outranks that study by a zillion – reality. I have touched the G-spots of women I have loved, women I have hooked up with, and even women with whom I have taken Body Dodson's famed masturbation workshop Body Sex. Of course there's a G-spot. Don't be ridiculous.
This is just another chapter in the on-going saga of “men who don't want to learn about women's bodies or have women know about their own bodies so let's just call women frigid or broken or too complicated." We and our bodies are none of those things. Women who don't want to have sex aren't frigid. They are tired of showing up for an activity that feeds male pleasure and leaves them hanging because too many men have no idea how to work the equipment.
Women aren't broken. We don't have penises. We don't want or need penises. We have something WAY better. We have clitorises with 8,000 plus nerve endings and no other job other than to give us pleasure. And, no, our bodies aren't too complicated. All you have to do is ask. Believe me, if you care enough to ask, she'll be happy to tell you what rocks her world.
The thing is, men, who are in charge of the budgets and the research and the media and the message, get nothing for themselves – zero, zilch, nada – from teaching and promoting the truth about women's bodies and sexuality. Not to mention is that all men want to do is measure and quantify. No can do with the G-spot. But that doesn't matter one bit.
Morris explains, “I do believe the reason behind the quest to invalidate the G-spot area is heavily rooted in the misguided notion that a woman's pleasure experience cannot be measured or seen and thusly cannot exist. The antiquated medical and scientific views of research do not apply to the variance and contextual nuisances of womanhood and female pleasure. And that difference-from the male, medical model is threatening and challenging and for some in that world, easily dismissed. Or must be dismissed. Unexplained + variance +can't be seen/measure= bad, crazy, non-existent. And frankly…the scientific and medical world, especially male practitioners in general still exhibit a level of discomfort if not distaste for female pleasure."
On the other hand, straight men gain plenty from creating and feeding the myths. They can keep women feeling less-than and self-conscious and dirty and broken and thinking that they need a man, that they are lucky to even have one since they are so broken. Then men don't have to learn or put in any effort in the bedroom or anywhere else for that matter because they are, all puns intended, cock of the walk. Well, fuck that.
Listen up, ladies. There is nothing wrong with you. Not one damn thing. Your body and your clitoris and your vagina and your very much existing G-spot are all perfect and they are all yours. And while we're on the subject, you have every right to enjoy them on your own, with a partner, with many partners, within a loving relationship, just for fun, whatever.
Masturbate, make love, hook up, you do you. Literally. You don't need a man. You can want one. But you do not – I repeat, do not – in any way need a man for sexual pleasure. The penis is completely and totally unnecessary for female sexual pleasure. COMPLETELY UNNECESSARY. There are mouths and fingers and toys and even vegetables that are actually far better suited for the job.
Too much of this “there's no G-spot" nonsense comes from the fact that most folks don't even know the truth about the clitoris. That tiny little bud on the outside is the tip of the iceberg. The clitoris has long, internal legs. Think inverted wishbone.
Women have just as much – if not more – erectile tissue than men.
Women have just as much – if not more – erectile tissue than men. Women can experience gobs of pleasure when some penis isn't just using the vagina like some sort of masturbation sleeve, banging away until said penis is done. And – side note – when it's done it's done, unlike the mighty clitoris which requires zero recoup time. ZERO. Sure the G-stop is a relative of the clitoris. Regardless of who or what it's related to - it exists. Not every woman goes wild when her G-spot is stimulated. That is true. Not every women can identify her G-spot. That is true. But every woman does have a G-spot. You simply have be enough of a human being to care about women and their bodies and their pleasure to know that. People can tell you about Game of Thrones in minute detail but they don't know the difference between a vagina and a vulva. (The vagina is the internal canal. The vulva is the external bits.)
This is getting so idiotic. We don't need any more studies. We need people to start talking to and LISTENING to women. The very pussy owning humans themselves. Want to know the truth about women's bodies? Pay attention to the ones you are insanely lucky to be intimate with. This is all verifiable info. This is not some Lochness shit here. Come on.
Women need to know their bodies. Human need to know about women's bodies. “I think it is crucial for women to understand, deeply, the implications of our variance in anatomy and pleasure," says Morris. "Our variance needs to be acknowledged, understood, celebrated and validated. Our variance is indeed beautiful. Normal. Expected. No big deal. Some of our variance is rooted in evolutionary brilliance. Some of it is evolutionary irrelevance, and it just is. We all need a roadmap to examine our sexuality and pleasure and medical studies like this just distract us from the REAL research."
"That dream aside, pleasure is our birthright. We have the right to seek, enhance and experience pleasure. On our own terms and in our own way. Validating the existence for the potential for pleasure in this area is one area where women can choose to claim this collectively." -Juliana Morris
If you're a woman, grab a mirror and have a look. Masturbate, please. Insert your own fingers into your own vagina, curve it upwards, and two inches in, toward the front of your body, you will feel a patch of tissue with ridges on it. Play with it and it will expand. That's your G-spot. Insert a toy that vibrates to stimulate it. Insert the classic and most reliable toy on earth for masturbation, the Betty Dodson Barbell, and try out her Rock and Rock Method of masturbation. (You can thank me later.) And once you have done that, you will smack the face of anyone who tells you what body parts you don't have. And if someone argues with you, make a note to never, ever, ever have sex with them. Ever. And to those “researchers," get a real job. Women don't need anyone else telling us that we don't have body parts that we clearly do. We don't need anyone else chipping away at our self-esteem. We don't need any more sex shaming. And thirteen people? Really? Thirteen? Shame on you. You and your practices and your findings are ridiculous.
And to anyone who has the honor of engaging with a woman and her body, be respectful, pay attention, put your own pleasure on the back burner, remember that just because it feels good to you doesn't mean it does a damn thing for her, and for God's sake, listen – listen, listen, listen.
Yes, Virginia, there is a G-spot.