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Finding the ideal career is not always easy, particularly if you consider yourself pretty creative. Often, creative sorts don't fare that well working for someone else and doing the same mundane job day in and day out. Well, the good news is that these days you don't have to do that, as there are plenty of options available for creative people that want to get into their perfect career and earn a great income.


With your creativity and ambition, there are various different options you can look at on a self employed basis. By choosing the right career path and putting your time and effort into getting your business off the ground, you can look forward to a far more lucrative future, flexibility in terms of your hours and days worked, and the ability to be your own boss while doing a job that really appeals to you.

Some Top Options for Creative People

There are actually many self-employed career options you can consider if you are a creative person with bags of ambition. One of the things you can do is set up as a mobile beautician, providing services those who want to look and feel great for a special event or just in general. Your creativity can be put to good use by helping others to achieve the perfect look and giving them more confidence in themselves. By doing this on a mobile basis, you can travel to your customers, which means you don't have to worry about paying to rent or buy a salon for your business. By getting a suitable qualification in cosmetology, you can choose a career option that can ensure you enjoy a brighter future.

Another great option for those who are creative and ambitious is to set up a business as a web designer. If you have tech skills as well as creativity, this could be an ideal job for you. By setting up a home office, you can work from the comfort and convenience of your own home. You can also enjoy working for clients in many different industries and from countries around the world. With more and more businesses eager to create a stronger online presence, you have the benefit of knowing your services will always be in demand. You can also have fun coming up with creative and eye-catching designed for different sites. Plus, of course, you can look forward to earning very good money from doing something you really enjoy.

For some people, working alone and focusing on research is a dream job. Well, if you can do this and you also want to be creative, you can consider working for yourself as a freelance writer. There are many businesses and individuals always on the lookout for a good content writer who works remotely and does a great job. As long as you provide quality content that is well-researched and well written, there is no reason why you cannot make a successful living out of doing this. Of course, you need to have a flair for writing and a passion for it, as this is something that does come across in your content. Again, you can enjoy working from a home office and scheduling your own hours and days to suit you.

Some people love nothing more than crafts, and this is yet another way in which people express their creativity. This can include all sorts of crafts from baking cakes and savory treats through to making jewelry, designing and making greetings cards, making scented candles and more. Some people do all of this as a hobby, but why not turn it into a career and home business? With digital technology at your fingertips, you can various ways to help you sell the items you create. For instance, you can promote your goods on social media sites, or you can set up a website to sell your creations. You can even set up an eBay store or sell on Etsy.

Making Sure You Market Your Business

No matter what type of creative business you decide to go into, you need to ensure you market yourself and your services properly. With the digital technology available today, this is something you can do without spending a fortune or investing huge amounts of time. Instead, you can do it quickly and conveniently with options such as email marketing, social media marketing, and off-line leafletting in the local area.

By making sure you market your services properly, you can gain exposure, and this will enable you to compete more effectively with established rivals that offer the same sorts of services as you. Also, it is well worth starting a blog, as this will help you to gain the trust and confidence of audiences as long as your posts are authoritative, well written, engaging, and accurate. This can also help to boost your website rankings, as search engines like to reward those that add regular, fresh, high-quality content to their sites.

You should also make sure that, no matter what sort of creative business you start, you offer the highest levels of customer service and communication. This can make a big difference when it comes to customer retention, which in turn can have a big impact on your reputation. By developing a loyal client base and a solid reputation within your chosen industry, you can look forward to far greater levels of success in the future.

Enjoy the Chance to Work for Yourself

One of the key things to note about doing this type of work is that it provides you with the perfect opportunity to become your own boss without having to have a load of money to invest upfront. For those who thought they would be stuck working for someone else for the rest of their lives, this is great news. It means that you can work for yourself, set your own income, enjoy total freedom and flexibility, and moreover, make money doing something that you really enjoy.

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Patriarchy Stress Disorder is A Real Thing and this Psychologist Is Helping Women Overcome It

For decades, women have been unknowingly suffering from PSD and intergenerational trauma, but now Dr. Valerie Rein wants women to reclaim their power through mind, body and healing tools.


As women, no matter how many accomplishments we have or how successful we look on the outside, we all occasionally hear that nagging internal voice telling us to do more. We criticize ourselves more than anyone else and then throw ourselves into the never-ending cycle of self-care, all in effort to save ourselves from crashing into this invisible internal wall. According to psychologist, entrepreneur and author, Dr. Valerie Rein, these feelings are not your fault and there is nothing wrong with you— but chances are you definitely suffering from Patriarchy Stress Disorder.


Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD) is defined as the collective inherited trauma of oppression that forms an invisible inner barrier to women's happiness and fulfillment. The term was coined by Rein who discovered a missing link between trauma and the effects that patriarchal power structures have had on certain groups of people all throughout history up until the present day. Her life experience, in addition to research, have led Rein to develop a deeper understanding of the ways in which men and women are experiencing symptoms of trauma and stress that have been genetically passed down from previously oppressed generations.

What makes the discovery of this disorder significant is that it provides women with an answer to the stresses and trauma we feel but cannot explain or overcome. After being admitted to the ER with stroke-like symptoms one afternoon, when Rein noticed the left side of her body and face going numb, she was baffled to learn from her doctors that the results of her tests revealed that her stroke-like symptoms were caused by stress. Rein was then left to figure out what exactly she did for her clients in order for them to be able to step into the fullness of themselves that she was unable to do for herself. "What started seeping through the tears was the realization that I checked all the boxes that society told me I needed to feel happy and fulfilled, but I didn't feel happy or fulfilled and I didn't feel unhappy either. I didn't feel much of anything at all, not even stress," she stated.

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This raised the question for Rein as to what sort of hidden traumas women are suppressing without having any awareness of its presence. In her evaluation of her healing methodology, Rein realized that she was using mind, body and trauma healing tools with her clients because, while they had never experienced a traumatic event, they were showing the tell-tale symptoms of trauma which are described as a disconnect from parts of ourselves, body and emotions. In addition to her personal evaluation, research at the time had revealed that traumatic experiences are, in fact, passed down genetically throughout generations. This was Rein's lightbulb moment. The answer to a very real problem that she, and all women, have been experiencing is intergenerational trauma as a result of oppression formed under the patriarchy.

Although Rein's discovery would undoubtably change the way women experience and understand stress, it was crucial that she first broaden the definition of trauma not with the intention of catering to PSD, but to better identify the ways in which trauma presents itself in the current generation. When studying psychology from the books and diagnostic manuals written exclusively by white men, trauma was narrowly defined as a life-threatening experience. By that definition, not many people fit the bill despite showing trauma-like symptoms such as disconnections from parts of their body, emotions and self-expression. However, as the field of psychology has expanded, more voices have been joining the conversations and expanding the definition of trauma based on their lived experience. "I have broadened the definition to say that any experience that makes us feel unsafe psychically or emotionally can be traumatic," stated Rein. By redefining trauma, people across the gender spectrum are able to find validation in their experiences and begin their journey to healing these traumas not just for ourselves, but for future generations.

While PSD is not experienced by one particular gender, as women who have been one of the most historically disadvantaged and oppressed groups, we have inherited survival instructions that express themselves differently for different women. For some women, this means their nervous systems freeze when faced with something that has been historically dangerous for women such as stepping into their power, speaking out, being visible or making a lot of money. Then there are women who go into fight or flight mode. Although they are able to stand in the spotlight, they pay a high price for it when their nervous system begins to work in a constant state of hyper vigilance in order to keep them safe. These women often find themselves having trouble with anxiety, intimacy, sleeping or relaxing without a glass of wine or a pill. Because of this, adrenaline fatigue has become an epidemic among high achieving women that is resulting in heightened levels of stress and anxiety.

"For the first time, it makes sense that we are not broken or making this up, and we have gained this understanding by looking through the lens of a shared trauma. All of these things have been either forbidden or impossible for women. A woman's power has always been a punishable offense throughout history," stated Rein.

Although the idea of having a disorder may be scary to some and even potentially contribute to a victim mentality, Rein wants people to be empowered by PSD and to see it as a diagnosis meant to validate your experience by giving it a name, making it real and giving you a means to heal yourself. "There are still experiences in our lives that are triggering PSD and the more layers we heal, the more power we claim, the more resilience we have and more ability we have in staying plugged into our power and happiness. These triggers affect us less and less the more we heal," emphasized Rein. While the task of breaking intergenerational transmission of trauma seems intimidating, the author has flipped the negative approach to the healing journey from a game of survival to the game of how good can it get.

In her new book, Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Barrier to Women's Happiness and Fulfillment, Rein details an easy system for healing that includes the necessary tools she has sourced over 20 years on her healing exploration with the pioneers of mind, body and trauma resolution. Her 5-step system serves to help "Jailbreakers" escape the inner prison of PSD and other hidden trauma through the process of Waking Up in Prison, Meeting the Prison Guards, Turning the Prison Guards into Body Guards, Digging the Tunnel to Freedom and Savoring Freedom. Readers can also find free tools on Rein's website to help aid in their healing journey and exploration.

"I think of the book coming out as the birth of a movement. Healing is not women against men– it's women, men and people across the gender spectrum, coming together in a shared understanding that we all have trauma and we can all heal."

https://www.drvalerie.com/