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Horoscope: Let The Stars Guide You Through The Month Of September

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School is back in session and it's not just the kids who will be required to take classes this month. With a T-square in the fixed signs and the Earth signs holding court in the major planets, EVERYONE is going to be pushed to delay gratification and take notes in September.


Fall is the physical and therefore metaphorical time for harvest. Energetically and spiritually that is NOT the case this year. These transits call on all of us to assess our mistakes and miss-judgements, learn from them, and plan a more effective course to more efficiently reach our goals as individuals and as a society. This is not a doom and gloom time…but it is a time of correction. You will notice this all over the world. Situations that were neglected and dormant suddenly become combustible. Irresponsible choices reveal painful consequences. True motives are revealed. Check in with your integrity. Check in with your motives. Remain independent and strong in your individual character. That is all you need to follow this cleansing and yet painful current. The false and extraneous are being removed. Progress is too important for the Universe to sit stagnant right now.

This is not a doom and gloom time…but it is a time of correction. You will notice this all over the world. Situations that were neglected and dormant suddenly become combustible.

Virgo

Aug 24th- Sep 23rd

“I told you so"

Happy birthday Virgo! We love your commitment to doing everything “100." We love your discernment and your bull*%#^ meter. This truly is your month to shine with all of the major planets harmoniously rewarding your consistency and excellence. You are so good at the routine and the dailyness…but I would like to suggest that you veer from that hyper focus on the mundane a little bit this month. Look up from the detail and into your future. Can you see how big you can be? They are trying to show you. It's time for faith without facts and certainty of vision without clarity or guarantees. Take a cue from our Fire sign friends and let your heart lead you right now. Let your emotions show you the direction. You are meticulously prepared for what is in store for you. I promise.

Libra

Sep 24th- Oct 23rd

“Flooring it"

I love this month for you. The first week of September please make sure that you take time for your relationship. If you aren't in a romantic relationship spend time on a friendship or partnership that means a lot to you. On and after September 11th you get your mojo back. The heaviness that has weighted you down over the last few months lifts and your energy to start new projects kicks in. It is also a time to invent new ways of doing things or to revamp or add to an invention or job description. Travel is also favored this month, especially with friends.

Scorpio

Oct 24th- Nov 22nd

“Seat belts on?"

Virgo season is always a quiet time for you. You are harmonious with the routine and discernment that this mutable earth sign brings. This September, however, the universe has a “T-square" obstacle course planned for our fixed signs including Scorpio. These challenges will have to do with relationships of all kinds. It includes lessons regarding the balance of power, gender equality and it will test to see how strong or weak a relationship's foundation is. You may also have some surprises thrown your way, reminding you that you are not always in control.

Sagittarius

Nov 23rd- Dec 22nd

“All action, less talk"

The fire signs that will weather this month beautifully will have one trait that they will lean on heavily; humility. Because this trait is virtually nonexistent in our Leos and Aries friends, my bet is on you dear Sagittarius. It just isn't the time for boastfulness, bravado or blustering. It's a time for perseverance and hard work. Your time to shine will come I promise. There is a wonderful gift for you this month however, in the form of a new moon in your archer's sign on September 16th. That is the night that you should plant your magic beans.

Capricorn

Dec 23rd- Jan 20th

“End of the affair"

The fixed sign T-square this month will be affecting everyone but with Saturn trining Uranus in your earth signs, you get a softer version of the challenge. It will probably show up in the form of relationship strain or surprise. Your spouse could get a job offer in another city. Unspoken grievances suddenly surface. A stagnant romance ends abruptly. As tough as it is, it will be for the better. On a happier note your career and/or asset portfolio should be soaring right now. Remember with the retrogrades, it could be a good time to sell.

Aquarius

Jan 21st- Feb 19th

“Pardon our progress"

I'll give you the good news first. The first week of September should be great for romance so set a date night with your love. The other good news is a boost of energy and momentum going forward with Mars moving into your sign on September 11th. Here is the caveat…watch your frustration and temper. The fixed sign T-square is going to push you to your last nerve. Then, when you are at your stress breaking point, there may be a few surprises thrown into the mix. Calm heads will prevail. Make sure that you keep yours the coolest. Read the intro paragraph again please and lean into the reason why: progress. Aquarians want progress more than ANYONE else, whatever the cost.

Pisces

Feb 20th- Mar 20th

“Here comes the rain again"

Just when you thought everything was barreling towards resolution…a speedbump. Along with that speedbump is a feeling of sadness or depression, but you just can't quite put your finger on why. I chose the word speedbump carefully. I didn't say stop sign. You are still moving forward you just need to slow down. And the heaviness is just your antennae picking up everyone else's stress and drama from the fixed sign T-Square. It's not yours. Give it back. You're just sensitive to the world in general. All is well. Keep going.

Aries

Mar 21st- Apr 20th

“The beauty of negative ions"

I know it isn't your birthday this month but I do hope that you will make a wish on September 16th when the new moon is in Sagittarius. This could be a very powerful and lucky day for you. I would even light a candle or meditate on the first fire of the season because it's a good bet this dream will come true. Mars is moving into your copasetic sign Aquarius but it is squaring Venus and Uranus so get ready for some combustion in your relationship. Nevermind. You are always ready for a fight…in fact you even enjoy an argument so this will be easier for you than most. You understand the value and spirit of clearing the air.

Taurus

Apr 21st- May 20th

“Slide, slide, slippety slide"

This could be a beautiful month for you if you just MANAGE YOUR TEMPER. There are two types of Taurus: loud ones and quiet ones. Either type could suffer severe frustration this month if they study setbacks from a micro perspective. The loud Taurus folks could do further damage by mouthing off. Our quiet Taurus friends can do internal damage to their blood pressure or worse by internalizing anger. A piece of advice- go big. Think about the big picture. Even the setbacks right now are setting you up for something better. I know it's a cliché but this month don't sweat the small stuff. Slide along with it and you will be fine.

Gemini

May 21st- Jun 21st

“Now you see me…"

There are so many big forces batting you and everyone else around this month. Gemini natives are better at weathering storms than most because of their mutable nature. The fixed T-square this month isn't easy for anyone but it is harder for those that push back. Geminis never push back. Please do not mistake their passivity in the face of impossible odds for weakness. Their mercurial adaptability is their secret weapon and admirable strength. And with Mars moving into Aquarius on September 11th, our Twin sign friends will be able to shuck and jive around adversity faster than anyone.

Cancer

Jun 22nd- Jul 23rd

“Joy in the Purpose"

This month will be challenging for everyone but I believe that the Virgo sun will take the edge off for our Cancer friends. Cancer finds a home in Virgo. It's a time to rest in the routine. Cancers love the consistency of duty that Virgo brings. Yes the squares could bring surprise setbacks or the proverbial wrench in the machine but Cancer can lean into the peacefulness in the commitment to their cause or project. There is also a profitable money release that could happen on or around September 10th. This Venus trine could also bring sweet moments with a loved one. Take notes because Cancer is one of the best signs to teach us what to focus on in adversity. It's not WHAT we are having to fight against that matters. It's the joy that we have a family, company, organization or cause that we love dearly to fight FOR.

Leo

July 24- Aug 23rd

“Oh captain my captain"

Happy Fall dear Leos! I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is that you are going to be at the center of many things this month (and you love that.) The bad news is that the center that I am referring to is that of a big storm. It could be family dynamics coming to a combustible head. It could be that the foundation of your relationship will be tested. It could be that surprise challenges are thrown into your best made plans. Like the dignified monarch that you are: KEEP CALM AND CARRY ON. Your kingdom depends on it. Your subjects are looking to you for leadership. This isn't your darkest hour, this is a time of preparation and correction so that your dreams will have the right fertile ground from which to flourish.

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My Untold Story Of Inventing the Sports Bra And How it Changed the World (And Me)

Following are excerpts from "Unleash the Girls, The Untold Story of the Invention of the Sports Bra and How It Changed the World (And Me)" By Lisa Z. Lindahl


There is an idea that has popped up everywhere from Chaos Theory to Science Fiction and New Age memes known popularly as the "Butterfly Effect." Simply put, it is the notion that one very small thing—the movement of a butterfly's wing say, or the ripple in a lake caused by a pebble being thrown into it—can cause tremendous effect far away: the butterfly's wing a tornado, the ripple a large wave on a distant shore. Cause and effect, does it have limits? The field of physics is telling us that it takes only observation to bring a thing into being. We cannot consider these areas of investigation and not acknowledge that everything—everything—is in relationship in some way or another with everything else.

So, it is evident to me that commerce of any kind is, also, just about relationships. It all boils down, on every level to this simplicity. While we usually think of relationships as occurring between people—it is far more than that.

I used to teach a course in entrepreneurship specifically for women in The Women's Small Business Program at Trinity College in Burlington, Vermont. I made this concept of relationship and its importance central in how I taught the marketing thought process. I would stress that for a product or service to be successful, it had to meet a perceived need. There is a need, and it wants to be met; or it may be thought of as a problem to be solved. Or there may be an existing solution that is less than adequate.

For example: In my universe as a runner there already were a plethora of bras available, but they were inadequate for my purpose. The relationship between my breasts, my running body, and my bra was creating discomfort and distraction. A new solution had to be found, the relationship occurring when all these things came together had to be fixed. Utilizing this point of view, one sees a set of issues that need to be addressed—they are in relationship with each other and their environment in a way that needs to be changed, adjusted.

Nowhere is this viewpoint truer than in business, as we enter into more and more relationships with people to address all the needs of the organization. Whether designing a product or a service or communicating with others about it—we are in relationship. And meanwhile, how about maintaining a healthy relationship with ourselves? All the issues we know about stress in the workplace can boil down to an internal balancing act around our relationships: to the work itself, to those we work with, to home life, friends and lovers. So quickly those ripples can become waves.

Because Jogbra was growing so quickly, relationships were being discovered, created, ending, expanding and changing at a pace that makes my head spin to recall. And truly challenged my spirit. Not to mention how I handled dealing with my seizure disorder.

"My Lifelong Partner"

Let me tell you a bit about my old friend, Epilepsy. Having Epilepsy does not make any sort of money-making endeavor easy or reliable, yet it is my other "partner" in life. Husbands and business partners have come and gone, but Epilepsy has always been with me. It was my first experience of having a "shadow teacher."

While a child who isn't feeling she has power over her world may have a tantrum, as we grow older, most of us find other more subtle ways to express our powerfulness or powerlessness. We adapt, learn coping mechanisms, how to persuade, manipulate, or capitulate when necessary. These tools, these learned adaptations, give a sense of control. They make us feel more in charge of our destiny. As a result, our maturing self generally feels indestructible, immortal. Life is a long, golden road of futures for the young.

This was not the case for me. I learned very early on when I started having seizures that I was not fully in charge of the world, my world, specifically of my body. There are many different types of epileptic seizures. Often a person with the illness may have more than one type. That has been the case for me. I was diagnosed with Epilepsy—with a seizure type now referred to as "Absence seizures"—when I was four years old. I have seen neurologists and taken medications ever since. As often happens, the condition worsened when I entered puberty and I started having convulsions as well—what most people think of when they think of epileptic seizures. The clinical name is generalized "Tonic-clonic" seizures.

In such a seizure the entire brain is involved, rather like an electrical circuit that has gone out as a result of a power surge. I lose consciousness, my whole body becomes rigid, the muscles start jerking uncontrollably, and I fall. Tonic-clonic seizures, also known as "grand mal" seizures, may or may not be preceded by an aura, a type of perceptual disturbance, which for me can act as a warning of what is coming. The seizure usually only lasts for a few minutes, but I feel its draining effects for a day or two afterwards. Although I would prefer to sleep all day after such a physically and emotionally taxing event, I have often just gotten up off the floor and, within hours, gone back to work. It was necessary sometimes, though definitely not medically advised. I'm fond of saying that having a grand mal seizure is rather like being struck by a Mack truck and living to tell the tale.

Having Epilepsy has forced me to be dependent on others throughout my life. While we are all dependent upon others to some degree—independent, interdependent, dependent—in my case a deep level of dependency was decreed and ingrained very early on. This enforced dependency did not sit well with my native self. I bucked and rebelled. At the same time, a part of me also feared the next fall, the next post-convulsive fugue. And so I recognized, I acquiesced to the need to depend on others.

The silver lining of having Epilepsy is that it has introduced me to and taught me a bit about the nature of being powerless—and experiencing betrayal. I could not trust that my body would always operate as it should. Routinely, it suddenly quits. I experience this as betrayal by my brain and body. It results in my complete powerlessness throughout the convulsion. Not to mention an inconvenient interruption of any activities or plans I might have made.

Hence, I am the recipient of two important life lessons—and I was blessed to have this very specific and graphic experience at a young age. It made me observant and reflective, giving me the opportunity to consider what/where/who "I" was. I knew I was not "just" my body, or even my brain.

So, who or what did that leave? Who, what am I? Much has been written about trauma, and about near-death experiences, both of which seizures have been classified or described as. I won't delve into that here except to say that experiencing recurrent seizures and the attendant altered states of consciousness that sometimes accompany an episode (the euphemism for a seizure) changes one. It deeply affects you. It is both illuminating and frightening. It opens you up in some ways and can close you way down in others. For me it made it easy to consider the possibility of other ways to perceive, of other realms. And as an adult I became interested in quantum physics, where Science is pushing and challenging our long-held perceptual assumptions. Me, who was poor in math and disinterested in Science while in school! So if not merely body and brain, who am I? Spirit. And with Epilepsy's tutelage, I was encouraged to question, seek, try to understand what lies beyond.

Living with Epilepsy has also given me great strength. In realizing the futile nature of trying to have "power over" Epilepsy, I developed a deep well of "power within"—that inner strength that comes in the acceptance of that which one cannot change—and looking beyond it.

Through my experience building the business of Jogbra with the unique lens afforded me by my Epilepsy partner, I came to understand more fully the nature of power and what it means to be truly powerful.

Specifically, that having power and exercising it is not simply a manifestation of the ego. It need not be "power-tripping." It is how I wield my power that matters, making the all-important distinction between creating a situation of power over, power with, or empowering and having and creating strength in oneself and others.

Being powerful is a big responsibility.

To put all this another way: do I choose to create situations in which I am able to wield power over others? Or do I choose to empower others, sharing my strengths with them, while nurturing their strengths as well? The first is not true power. It is control. The second I believe to be the essence of true and positive power: strength. And integral to creating a more harmonious world, oh by the way.

While this may be apparent, even basic to others, it was an "aha!" moment for me. Too often in the years ahead I would give away my power and question my own strengths,. Time and again, however, my inner strength, my shadow teacher's gift, helped me survive and thrive until I could take responsibility for and embrace more fully my own power.

© Lisa Z. Lindahl 2019