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Key Considerations for Those Who Are Investing Their Money

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There are many people from different backgrounds and of different ages that are interested in investing money. However, many are not particularly familiar with the various different types of investments that are around and some have no idea how to get started. In addition, there are many who are too scared of losing money on investments due to horror stories they may have heard. This then results in them simply putting their money into a savings account where it earns very little interests and offers no returns.


If you are one of the many people who want to try and make their money work for them through investments, it is important to know what key points you need to consider and what steps you should take. Investing money is something you do have to be careful with, which is why so many people get so nervous about it.

However, if you have access to the right tools, services, and advice, this is a task that can become far easier and more manageable for you. From getting expert financial advice to using tools such as the Ally Invest app, there are many tools that you can use in order to get advice and help when it comes to investing.

Some Key Points to Think About

For those that are thinking of investing their hard earned cash, it is very important not to rush into any decisions. Investments are not decisions that should be rushed into or taken lightly. You need to put a lot of thought into your options and selections as well as ensuring you have the most accurate and sound advice.

Any wrong decisions when it comes to investments could prove to be very costly to you, so it is vital that you take some time to consider some of the key factors before you make any decisions at all.

One of the things you need to consider before you make any decisions about investing money is whether you can afford to invest and if so how much you can afford. You have to remember that investment is always a risk so if you stand to lose everything if something goes wrong, you need to think twice.

If you have money that you can afford to lose, you can invest without having to worry about being left destitute in the event that something does go awry. Of course, all investors hope to make their money work for them and many do achieve this with their investments. However, you still have to take the possible risks into consideration and determine whether it is worth the gamble in your specific situation or circumstances.

Another key thing you need to think about is the type of investment you want to get involved in. There are many types of investments you can consider depending on your interests, preferences, knowledge, and finances. However, for those that are not really familiar with investing it can be extremely difficult to navigate the investment minefield and decide what sort of investment to opt for.

The good news is that there are experts that can help when it comes to assessing your situation and recommending the best option. However, you do need to be very careful and choose someone with expertise, an excellent reputation and someone that is regulated.

Many people in the past have been steered wrong by unscrupulous advisors and this has left them facing huge losses. By making sure you do your research when it comes to finding an investment advisor, you can benefit from far greater peace of mind.

You should also take the time to do your own research online so you have a better idea of what your investment options are, how much you might be expected to invest, what the likelihood of impressive returns is, and how the investments work.

Even if you do not know a lot about investment and are unfamiliar with the jargon, you will find plenty of articles and posts online that are aimed at those with little or no knowledge of investing.

This means that you can more easily understand what each type of investment is about and what the pros and cons are. You can also better understand the risks involved with different types of investment, which puts you in a far better position to make an informed decision with regards to the investment option you choose.

One of the other important points you need to look at is how long you can afford to have your money tied up for. There are some investment options that are short term and where you may be able to make returns quite quickly. However, there are others that can provide much bigger returns but do require the investment for a longer period in order to do this. If you can afford to invest over the long term, you will find that you have far more in terms of options and you have a better chance of making impressive returns on your investment.

Setting Goals and Diversifying

Two of the things that investors often do in order to boost their chances of success is to set goals and to diversify. The first is something the gives them some sort of structure when it comes to investment and this means that they can work toward certain goals and aims that they have in terms of their investment. The second ensures that they do not put all of their eggs in one basket, which helps to minimize on risks and spreads their investment money around rather than relying on just one particular investment.

Making sure you follow these tips can help to ensure you choose the right type of investment for you and could help to increase your changes of making returns.

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Patriarchy Stress Disorder is A Real Thing and this Psychologist Is Helping Women Overcome It

For decades, women have been unknowingly suffering from PSD and intergenerational trauma, but now Dr. Valerie Rein wants women to reclaim their power through mind, body and healing tools.


As women, no matter how many accomplishments we have or how successful we look on the outside, we all occasionally hear that nagging internal voice telling us to do more. We criticize ourselves more than anyone else and then throw ourselves into the never-ending cycle of self-care, all in effort to save ourselves from crashing into this invisible internal wall. According to psychologist, entrepreneur and author, Dr. Valerie Rein, these feelings are not your fault and there is nothing wrong with you— but chances are you definitely suffering from Patriarchy Stress Disorder.


Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD) is defined as the collective inherited trauma of oppression that forms an invisible inner barrier to women's happiness and fulfillment. The term was coined by Rein who discovered a missing link between trauma and the effects that patriarchal power structures have had on certain groups of people all throughout history up until the present day. Her life experience, in addition to research, have led Rein to develop a deeper understanding of the ways in which men and women are experiencing symptoms of trauma and stress that have been genetically passed down from previously oppressed generations.

What makes the discovery of this disorder significant is that it provides women with an answer to the stresses and trauma we feel but cannot explain or overcome. After being admitted to the ER with stroke-like symptoms one afternoon, when Rein noticed the left side of her body and face going numb, she was baffled to learn from her doctors that the results of her tests revealed that her stroke-like symptoms were caused by stress. Rein was then left to figure out what exactly she did for her clients in order for them to be able to step into the fullness of themselves that she was unable to do for herself. "What started seeping through the tears was the realization that I checked all the boxes that society told me I needed to feel happy and fulfilled, but I didn't feel happy or fulfilled and I didn't feel unhappy either. I didn't feel much of anything at all, not even stress," she stated.

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This raised the question for Rein as to what sort of hidden traumas women are suppressing without having any awareness of its presence. In her evaluation of her healing methodology, Rein realized that she was using mind, body and trauma healing tools with her clients because, while they had never experienced a traumatic event, they were showing the tell-tale symptoms of trauma which are described as a disconnect from parts of ourselves, body and emotions. In addition to her personal evaluation, research at the time had revealed that traumatic experiences are, in fact, passed down genetically throughout generations. This was Rein's lightbulb moment. The answer to a very real problem that she, and all women, have been experiencing is intergenerational trauma as a result of oppression formed under the patriarchy.

Although Rein's discovery would undoubtably change the way women experience and understand stress, it was crucial that she first broaden the definition of trauma not with the intention of catering to PSD, but to better identify the ways in which trauma presents itself in the current generation. When studying psychology from the books and diagnostic manuals written exclusively by white men, trauma was narrowly defined as a life-threatening experience. By that definition, not many people fit the bill despite showing trauma-like symptoms such as disconnections from parts of their body, emotions and self-expression. However, as the field of psychology has expanded, more voices have been joining the conversations and expanding the definition of trauma based on their lived experience. "I have broadened the definition to say that any experience that makes us feel unsafe psychically or emotionally can be traumatic," stated Rein. By redefining trauma, people across the gender spectrum are able to find validation in their experiences and begin their journey to healing these traumas not just for ourselves, but for future generations.

While PSD is not experienced by one particular gender, as women who have been one of the most historically disadvantaged and oppressed groups, we have inherited survival instructions that express themselves differently for different women. For some women, this means their nervous systems freeze when faced with something that has been historically dangerous for women such as stepping into their power, speaking out, being visible or making a lot of money. Then there are women who go into fight or flight mode. Although they are able to stand in the spotlight, they pay a high price for it when their nervous system begins to work in a constant state of hyper vigilance in order to keep them safe. These women often find themselves having trouble with anxiety, intimacy, sleeping or relaxing without a glass of wine or a pill. Because of this, adrenaline fatigue has become an epidemic among high achieving women that is resulting in heightened levels of stress and anxiety.

"For the first time, it makes sense that we are not broken or making this up, and we have gained this understanding by looking through the lens of a shared trauma. All of these things have been either forbidden or impossible for women. A woman's power has always been a punishable offense throughout history," stated Rein.

Although the idea of having a disorder may be scary to some and even potentially contribute to a victim mentality, Rein wants people to be empowered by PSD and to see it as a diagnosis meant to validate your experience by giving it a name, making it real and giving you a means to heal yourself. "There are still experiences in our lives that are triggering PSD and the more layers we heal, the more power we claim, the more resilience we have and more ability we have in staying plugged into our power and happiness. These triggers affect us less and less the more we heal," emphasized Rein. While the task of breaking intergenerational transmission of trauma seems intimidating, the author has flipped the negative approach to the healing journey from a game of survival to the game of how good can it get.

In her new book, Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Barrier to Women's Happiness and Fulfillment, Rein details an easy system for healing that includes the necessary tools she has sourced over 20 years on her healing exploration with the pioneers of mind, body and trauma resolution. Her 5-step system serves to help "Jailbreakers" escape the inner prison of PSD and other hidden trauma through the process of Waking Up in Prison, Meeting the Prison Guards, Turning the Prison Guards into Body Guards, Digging the Tunnel to Freedom and Savoring Freedom. Readers can also find free tools on Rein's website to help aid in their healing journey and exploration.

"I think of the book coming out as the birth of a movement. Healing is not women against men– it's women, men and people across the gender spectrum, coming together in a shared understanding that we all have trauma and we can all heal."

https://www.drvalerie.com/