3min readLifestyle 06 May 2019
Dating can be very difficult for some people and this can be for a variety of reasons. Some people are nervous because they have been out of the dating game for so long.
Others do not have the confidence to speak to new people in person. There are also those who have such busy schedules, they simply don't get the time to go out and socialize.
If you are in any of these situations but you are interested in meeting someone with a view to a relationship, online dating could be the ideal solution for you. More and more people have used this method of meeting new people and dating over recent years, and it is something that has gained a lot of popularity as well as a high level of success. In this article, we will look at some of the fantastic benefits that come with online dating.
Why So Many People Choose Online Dating
So, why do so many people choose online dating rather than going out and about to try to meet new people. Well, there are all sorts of reasons why people do this, and with the rise in the number of people using these sites, there has also been an increase in the number of sites available. In fact, you will find sites for all sorts of people these days, from LGBT dating sites and senior dating sites through to interracial dating sites, uniform dating, and more.
One of the many reasons why people decide to use a dating site to meet someone special is because it enables them to hook up with someone likeminded and who wants the same sorts of experiences. Some people are more interested in meeting someone for casual dates and fun, new experiences including fun in the bedroom using products like sex toys, and a bit of fun. Others are more into long-term loving relationships with the chance of marriage. Whatever your aims and goals, you can find the ideal site online.
Another key benefit of using dating sites is that they are ideal if you have a really busy schedule and lifestyle, which leaves you unable to go out and meet new people on a regular basis. If you want to get into the dating game, you won't get very far if you are constantly working and then at home. However, if you use online dating, you don't have to worry about finding the time to go out on the town in order to meet someone. Instead, you can simply meet new people, strike up conversations, and arrange to meet up from the comfort and privacy of your own home. In addition, you can do this at a time that suits you, which means you won't have to compromise on your other commitments in order to meet someone new.
For those that lack confidence or having been out of the dating game for a while, online dating is also an ideal solution. When you go online to meet new people, you have the chance to get to know them from the safety of your keyboard and computer or smart device. This means that you don't have to pluck up the courage to go up to them and you can slowly build your confidence as you get to know them online. If you decide that you are compatible, and you are interested in meeting up, you can even arrange a video call beforehand so you can speak to them in person but on a screen. By the time you actually meet up face to face, you will already feel as though you know them to a degree, so the experience will be nowhere near as daunting or difficult.
The excellent choice of dating sites coupled with the number of people that use each one provides yet another benefits. It means that you are far more likely to meet the partner you are looking for, as you will find many people with the same interests and relationship goals. This means that you can speed up the time it takes for you to meet the right person.
Creating a Solid Profile
One of the things you will need to do if you want to benefit from success on these dating sites is to get up a good online dating profile. This is what will attract other people to you, which is why you need to make sure it is good but also that it is honest. Don't be tempted to lie or put on old photos, as this will all come to light if and when you get together. It is best to be open and honest upfront so people can get to know you and like you for who you are.
There are plenty of tips online to help you create the ideal profile, so this should not prove to be a problem for you. If you have friends or family members you have confided in about joining online dating sites, it is worth getting them to run their eye over your profile before you make it live. Getting some advice from another party can help you to improve your profile and iron our any issues that could affect your success levels when on the site.
Get Your Love Life Back on Track
One thing you can be sure of is that with the right dating site, the right profile, and the right attitude, you can get your love life back on track with far greater ease. You don't have to go to the expense and time of getting dressed up to go out in the hope of meeting someone. You won't have to worry about overcoming your nerves to go and speak to a complete stranger in person. In short, you can get to know people in a relaxed atmosphere (your own home) and at your own pace. This can make all the difference when it comes to meeting the right person for you.
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Help! My Friend Is a No Show
Dear Armchair Psychologist,
I have a friend who doesn't reply to my messages about meeting for dinner, etc. Although, last week I ran into her at a local restaurant of mine, it has always been awkward to be friends with her. Should I continue our friendship or discontinue it? We've been friends for a total four years and nothing has changed. I don't feel as comfortable with her as my other close friends, and I don't think I'll ever be able to reach that comfort zone in pure friendship.
Dear Sadsies,I am sorry to hear you've been neglected by your friend. You may already have the answer to your question, since you're evaluating the non-existing bond between yourself and your friend. However, I'll gladly affirm to you that a friendship that isn't reciprocated is not a good friendship.
I have had a similar situation with a friend whom I'd grown up with but who was also consistently a very negative person, a true Debby Downer. One day, I just had enough of her criticism and vitriol. I stopped making excuses for her and dumped her. It was a great decision and I haven't looked back. With that in mind, it could be possible that something has changed in your friend's life, but it's insignificant if she isn't responding to you. It's time to dump her and spend your energy where it's appreciated. Don't dwell on this friend. History is not enough to create a lasting bond, it only means just that—you and your friend have history—so let her be history!
- The Armchair Psychologist