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Is a Furnished Apartment Right for You? The Pros and Cons

There is a lot to consider when you are searching for a new place to live. Your budget, the location, nearby amenities and much more are likely big factors that are going to sway your decision. But, don't forget to consider the furnished status of your new place! Many properties today offer furnished apartments, which can be a great option if you are a first-time renter on a tight budget – after all, buying all your own furniture for an apartment can become pretty expensive. Choosing a furnished apartment means that you can just move in and start living there with everything that you need, but there are some things to consider before you make the choice. Is a furnished apartment the right option for you? We've put together some pros and cons to consider.


Pro: You're Ready to Go:

It's as simple as that – when you move into a furnished apartment, you don't have to spend the next few weeks looking for items such as a sofa, a bed, tables, chairs, and appliances. They are already there in your apartment ready for you to use. So, if you're in a rush and don't have the time to shop for furniture, it's a great choice. However, bear in mind that some furnished apartments might only cover the basics. So you'll still have to shop for items like a television, lamps, rugs, ornaments, wall art, bed linen, and anything else you need to make it your own.

Pro: It's Ideal for Short-Term:

Are you look for a temporary lease while saving up to buy a house? Or are you on a long-term business trip? Staying with family and need somewhere to live for one month or longer? A furnished apartment is an ideal option if you're going to say in the city for an extended period of time. Check out these apartment rentals if you're looking for a short or long-term accommodation in Chicago. These spaces have everything you need to move in and start living comfortably. In addition to Chicago, Blueground offers furnished apartment rentals in many cities around the US.

Pro: Save Money:

If you're not bothered about the type of furniture that you have in your home as long as you've got the basics covered and it's in good condition, then you could save money renting a furnished apartment. It avoids the need to invest in often expensive furniture items such as a bed and sofa, and when you move out, you won't need to pay for transporting them to a new place or buying new ones on top of what you've already spent.

Con: Higher Rent:

In most cases, you'll find that furnished apartments come with higher rent; this is usually because the landlord has invested more money into the property by covering the cost of the furniture as well. For some renters, it's worth paying the additional rent in order to save on the cost of purchasing their own furniture, but if you already have furniture that you could use then it might not be worth it.

Con: Lack of Choice:

Another con to consider if you're thinking about moving into a furnished apartment is the lack of choice and control you'll have over the furniture in your place. When you don't own your sofa, for example, then you won't be able to simply just sell it or throw it away to make room for a new one if you want to upgrade; you'll need to get permission from your landlord to store it or leave your new one there to replace the old one when you move. In addition, you'll also be liable for paying charges for any damage caused to furniture from your security deposit, rather than the apartment alone. And if the furniture doesn't match up with your décor tastes and preferences, you have little choice but to deal with it.

Con: Lack of Space:

If you already have furniture of your own and are looking to move into a furnished apartment with it, then this could pose a problem. There may be a lack of space for some of your own furniture items, leaving you faced with a need to get rid of it before you can move in. Or, if there is some room for your own furnishings, you may easily find that they do not match at all with the furniture provided in the apartment, which could become a problem if the appearance of your home is something that matters a lot to you.

When it comes to renting an apartment, there are many great reasons to opt for a furnished place. An apartment that comes with the furniture you'll need is an ideal choice for first-time or short-term renters who do not want to have the hassle and cost of buying their own furniture for their place; it's also handy for business travelers who need long-term accommodation. However, it's a good idea to weigh up the pros and cons to see if a furnished apartment is the right choice for you.

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Tempted To Dial Your Ex: 5 Ways To Know Whether Or Not You Should Contact An Old Flame

Thinking of ringing up your ex during these uncertain times? Maybe you want an excuse to contact your ex, or maybe you genuinely feel the need to connect with someone on an emotional level. As a matchmaker and relationship expert, I was surprised at the start of the coronavirus quarantine when friends were telling me that they were contacting their exes! But as social distancing has grown to be more than a short-term situation, we must avoid seeking short-term solutions—and resist the urge to dial an ex.

It stands to reason that you would contact an ex for support. After all, who knows you and your fears better than an ex? This all translates into someone who you think can provide comfort and support. As a matchmaker, I already know that people can spark and ignite relationships virtually that can lead to offline love, but lonely singles didn't necessarily believe this or understand this initially, which drives them straight back to a familiar ex. You only need to tune into Love Is Blind to test this theory or look to Dina Lohan and her virtual boyfriend.

At the start of lockdown, singles were already feeling lonely. There were studies that said as much as 3 out of 4 people were lonely, and that was before lockdown. Singles were worried that dating someone was going to be off limits for a very long time. Now when you factor in a widespread pandemic and the psychological impact that hits when you have to be in isolation and can't see anyone but your takeout delivery person, we end up understanding this urge to contact an ex.

So, what should you do if you are tempted to ring up an old flame? How do you know if it's the wrong thing or the right thing to do in a time like this? Check out a few of my points before deciding on picking up that phone to text, much less call an ex.

Before You Dial The Ex...

First, you need to phone a friend! It's the person that got you through this breakup to begin with. Let them remind you of the good, the bad and the ugly before taking this first step and risk getting sucked back in.

What was the reason for your breakup? As I mentioned before, you could get sucked back in… but that might not be a bad thing. It depends; when you phoned that friend to remind you, did she remind you of good or bad things during the breakup? It's possible that you both just had to take jobs in different cities, and the breakup wasn't due to a problem in the relationship. Have these problems resolved if there were issues?

You want to come from a good place of reflection and not let bad habits make the choice for you.

Depending on the reason for the breakup, set your boundaries for how much contact beforehand. If there was abuse or toxic behaviors in the relationship, don't even go there. You can't afford to repeat this relationship again.

If you know you shouldn't be contacting this ex but feel lonely, set up a support system ahead of time. Set up activities or things to fall back on to resist the urge. Maybe you phone a different friend, join a virtual happy hour for singles, or binge watch Netflix. Anything else is acceptable, but don't phone that ex.

Write down your reasons for wanting to contact the ex. Ask yourself if this is worth the pain. Are you flea-bagging again, or is there a friendship to be had, which will provide you with genuine comfort? If it's the latter, it's okay to go there. If it's an excuse to go back together and make contact, don't.

Decide how far you are willing to take the relationship this time, without it being a rinse and repeat. If you broke up for reasons beyond your control, it's okay. If your ex was a serial cheater, phone a friend instead.

If there was abuse or toxic behaviors in the relationship, don't even go there. You can't afford to repeat this relationship again.

As life returns to a more normal state and you adjust to the new normal, we will slowly begin to notice more balance in our lives. You want to come from a good place of reflection and not let bad habits make the choice for you. Some do's and don'ts for this time would be:

  • Do: exercise ⁠— taking care of you is important during this time. It's self-care and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
  • Do: shower, brush your teeth, and get out of your sweats.
  • Don't: be a couch potato.
  • Don't: drink or eat excessively during this time. Again, remember to maintain a healthy lifestyle.
  • Do: think positive thoughts everyday and write down the 3 things you are grateful for. Look at the impact of John Krasinksi's SGN. It's uplifting and when you feel good, you won't want to slide backwards.
  • Don't: contact a toxic ex. It's a backward move in a moment of uncertainty that could have a long term impact. Why continue flea bagging yourself?