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How to Go On a Luxury Getaway With Friends

Are you bored of staying in hostels and flying economy when you travel abroad with friends? Going on holiday is the perfect time to add a little bit of luxury to your life, and this is no different when you are travelling with friends than if you were travelling with family or a partner. Read this guide to find out how you can add luxury to large group holidays, and you will be jetting off to your dream holiday in no time!


Rent a Villa

Rather than opt for traveller's hostels or budget hotels, which are popular options for groups of friends, exchange these for a private villa in your ideal destination. Villas are perfect for large groups of friends as they are spacious enough to allow everyone to have privacy and space to breathe while ensuring that you can all stay together. Not only this, but villas are a high-end accommodation option for groups, with the opportunity to stay in a secluded and tranquil location outside of bustling resorts and use luxury facilities such as private swimming pools which come included. James Villas Holidays provide a selection of luxury villas for large groups such as villas in Puerto del Carmen, Lanzarote, giving you the opportunity to enjoy some of the most sought-after destinations for groups of friends with a luxury twist.

Choose a Picturesque Destination

The location of your trip is important to any luxury destination, however, and it can be difficult to come to a group agreement on your perfect location. For instance, destinations such as the Canary and Balearic Islands are popular with large groups of friends and are known for their vibrant nightlife and relaxing beachside destinations. However, for those in your friendship group that are not interested in these popular pastimes, these destinations also have other amazing things to do, including trips to Timanfaya National Park, snorkelling and dolphin trips, and even luxury attractions like boat trips around the astonishing coastline.

Hire a Private Guide

If you don't know your way around, you can heighten the luxury of your trip by hiring a local to help you to see the best that the country has to offer. These guides will show you around the local area and find you the best places to perform all the activities that you have dreamed of, whether that is finding the best destinations shopping destinations or finding the most glam beachside bar.

Book Business Class

Although you may have thought that booking business class flights were only an option if you won the lottery, it is possible to upgrade your group's flights by being flexible with when you leave, booking far in advance or finding last-minute deals, and by booking with budget carriers whose business class options are already generally cheaper. Business-class travel can give you more legroom, better meals, and even more space to allow you to sleep during the flight, which can be especially important if you are travelling long distances.
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Please Don't Ask Me To Network

"Who are you meeting for lunch this week?"

Without fail, my former boss would ask me this question in every weekly status we had. And I dreaded the question. Because my answer was generally a stammering "Umm… No One." Occasionally I could remember what I actually had for lunch. And almost always it was sitting in my windowless cube eating a soggy sad sandwich.


I didn't understand why "who I had lunch with this week" was worthy of being a topic on our weekly status. After all, I was only 6 months into this new job. I was still figuring out how to pull data from Nielsen. I was still figuring out how to write an innovation brief. I was still trying to figure out where the bathrooms were in this maze of a building.

And despite knowing this question would come up in every weekly status, I was reluctant to change my behavior. I didn't see the value in the question. I didn't see the importance of it in my career. I didn't understand why I had to have lunch with anyone.

Because I hated the idea of having to network, to meet people, to put myself out there. Because networking was something slimy and strange and weird and scary. It made my stomach hurt, my throat go dry. And I could feel a faint headache coming on.

Even Oxford's definition of networking only reaffirmed my fears of what networking looked like: the action or process of interacting with others to exchange information and develop professional or social contacts.

Because please don't ask me to walk into a room where I don't know anyone. And stand in the corner sipping a bad glass of Chardonnay. Please don't ask me to slide my business card out and not so subtly shove it in your face. And ask you to do something for me. Please don't ask me to network. Because I hate networking.

And I used to hate networking (okay, maybe hate is too strong.) I still really dislike the term. "Networking" seemed about getting something from someone. Or someone getting something from you. A favor, a job, a referral. "Networking" seemed very transactional. And someone shoving a business card at you (which happened to me recently at event) only solidified by feelings.

And over the years, I came to really understand that networking wasn't about "the action or process of interacting with others." It was about building authentic connections. It was about meeting people who were different than you. It was about expanding my community. And creating new communities. It was tapping into more and more communities I could belong to.

And as I slowly started to change my view on networking- I mean building authentic connections- I started to realize my communities were more inclusive than I thought. My best friends from middle school. Former bosses. College Alumni I met after we had graduated. Colleagues from past companies. Vendors and agency partners I had once worked with. Colleagues I had once managed. As my family expanded, my husband, my two sister-in laws and my brother in-law. A whole host of fabulous cousin-in-laws. My baby brother as his career skyrocketed. And fellow parents in my kids' school.

I still hate networking. And I love building connections. And helping to build connections and be a bridge for other people.

Now, when I go to a large event, I try to go with a friend. We have a drink at the bar and then part ways to try and make new friends. If we don't authentically connect with other people, and we have made the effort, we always have each other to back to.

Now, I try to meet one new person a week at my company or in my broader community, or reconnect with someone I miss seeing. (This doesn't always have to be in person, can be text, Zoom or Facetime.) And if you can't commit to doing that, that you should seriously relook at your schedule. I thank my former boss for that constant reminder.

Now, I joined Luminary, a women's collaboration hub in NYC, which has been life changing for me. I am also on the advisory board. It's all about women supporting and lifting each other up- to get more money, get that next big promotion, or start their own venture. It's a built-in community of unwavering support.

Now, I am working on expanding my community of moms. Not too long ago, I worked up the nerve to ask a fellow mom in my daughter's class if she wanted to get together. She thought I meant a playdate. I meant drinks. And after one late night out drinking, I have bonded with a whole new set of badass women.

And all of these communities. I am there for my communities. And they are all there for me. Referral for a job at my company. Coaching on how to survive a bad boss. Advice on how to ask for more money. Supporting each other as we care for aging parents. Candid feedback on why they didn't get that promotion. Commiserating over a cocktail on which working parent had the worst week ever.

So please don't ask me to network. Because I hate it. And well actually I don't have a business card to give you. I haven't printed one in four years.