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How to Finance Your Honeymoon

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Honeymoons are a magical way to celebrate love and to spend time with your new spouse, but if your pockets are feeling a little light after the wedding, figuring out how to finance your honeymoon may seem a bit daunting. But, with some research and planning, it is certainly possible to celebrate marrying the person of your dreams with the honeymoon of your dreams without causing yourself a financial nightmare. Here are some tips on ways to save up for the big trip, and, if you're still looking for a little help, different methods for financing the honeymoon.


Ways To Save

Find the best destinations for your money

One of the most critical decisions in planning your honeymoon is of course where you will go! If you don't have one particular destination in mind, do some research as to where you might be able to have the best experience for the least amount of money. You may be able to find an off-the-beaten-path destination that is equally (if not more!) magical than the more touristy spots with a much more reasonable price tag. I'm sure you've also had friends or family members encouraging you to go the all-inclusive route as a way to get the most bang for your buck. All-inclusive trips can be a great way to get a good deal, but make sure you're reading the fine print. If you think something sounds too good to be true, chances are it is.

Consider the timing

Most destinations will be cheaper at certain times of the year. If you're set on taking your honeymoon right after the wedding, you may want to research destinations that are more cost effective at that time of year. Or, if you're set on a particular destination, consider waiting until prices are lower even if that means not going immediately after your nuptials.

Get cooking

A great way to save money once at your destination is to choose an accommodation with a kitchen or kitchenette. Preparing your own meals – particularly breakfast and lunch – can go a long way in cutting costs (and can also be a fun activity for you and partner!).

Put your points to work

Have a credit card with hotel or airline points? Consider looking into what airlines and hotels participate in your card's points program and where you may be able to go to use these points. Doing a little digging is key here – many hotel chains have sister properties in popular destinations that may not bare the more recognizable name.

Take a mini-moon

“Mini moons" – or going on a smaller trip right after your wedding while taking more time to save up for your bigger trip – have become increasingly popular lately. Taking a mini-moon can be something as simple as going on a weekend trip to a destination close to home or even a staycation, or it can still involve a flight or a more exotic destination, just for a shorter period of time. Whatever your pleasure, the perks of a mini-moon include getting to spend that quality time with your partner right after the wedding while also taking the time you need to save up for that pricier trip down the line.

How To Finance

Like with any foreseeable expense, the simplest and most effective way to save up for a honeymoon is to start including it in your monthly budget as soon as possible.

This can certainly be difficult, particularly if you and your partner are contributing to wedding costs, but even sticking $20 a week in a honeymoon jar can go a long way toward making your dream trip a reality.

Credit cards

Travel credit cards, in particular, can be a great way to finance your honeymoon. Research which cards may offer the best travel rewards or have sign-up bonuses so you can make the most of the money you're spending. But like loans or lines of credit, consider how quickly you will be able to pay off the debt. If the card offers an interest-free period, aim to pay off your balance before the interest kicks in. However, you have to be cautious not to overcharge more than you can afford. Just because you get to pay later doesn't mean you don't have to pay!

Honeymoon Registries

Honeymoon registries have become all the rage lately. Instead of the traditional gift registry, couples are asking for money toward their honeymoon from their guests. Some websites offer honeymoon registry platforms, which can allow your guests to contribute to specific expenses related to your trip. Some destinations and honeymoon providers also provide honeymoon registry sites.

Your honeymoon is a once-in-a-lifetime trip, and you and your partner deserve to make the most of it. The cost of travel, particularly after a significant expense like a wedding, can undoubtedly be disheartening, but it is indeed still possible to have a magical and memorable honeymoon without breaking the bank. The traditional path is not always the best or most cost-effective path, and that's okay! By looking into alternatives, planning ahead, and making sure you're getting the most bang for your buck, you and your partner can create memories that will last long after the trip is paid off!

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2020 is Around the Corner: Here's How To Design Your Next Decade

Personally, I am over the top excited that we are on the cusp of turning the page on not only a new year but also on a new 10-year window of opportunities and possibilities!

You may be thinking, whoa…I am just embracing the fall season…yikes… it is tough to think about a new decade!


Yet it is this groundwork, this forward thought that you put in place TODAY that will propel you and lead you into greatness in 2020 and beyond. Designing a new decade rests in your ability to vision, in your willingness to be curious, in your awareness of where you are now and what you most want to curate. Essentially, curating what's next is about tapping into today with confidence, conviction, and decision. Leading YOU starts now. This is your new next. It is your choice.

Sometimes to get to that 'next', you need to take a step back to reflect. Please pardon my asking you to spend time in yesterday. Those who know me personally, know that I created and continue to grow my business based on enabling the present moment as a springboard for living your legacy. So, indulge me here! True, I am asking you to peek into the past, yet it is only in order for you to bring the essence of that past forward into this moment called NOW.

One of the best ways to tap into what's next is to clarify what drives you. To design a new decade, ask yourself this question about the past ten years:

What worked? What were my successes?

Make a list of your achievements big and small. Don't type them, but rather use ink and paper and sit with and savor them. Move your thoughts and your successes from your head, to your heart, to your pen, to the paper. Remember that on the flip side of goals not attained and New Year's resolutions abandoned, there was more than likely some traction and action that moved you forward, even if the end result was not what you expected. Once you have a full list of a decade's worth of personal and professional accomplishments, think about how this makes you feel. Do you remember celebrating all of them? My guess is no. So, celebrate them now. Give them new life by validating them. Circle the successes that resonate with you most right now. Where can you lean into those accomplishments as you power into the decade ahead?

Now comes a tougher question, one that I used myself in my own mid-life reinvention and a question I adore because in a moment's time it provides you with a quick reconnect to your unique inner voice.

If it were 10 years ago and nothing were standing in your way, no fear or excuses to contend with…what would you do?

Don't overthink it. The brilliance of this question is that it refocuses purpose. Whatever first came to mind when you answered this for yourself is at its core a powerful insight into defining and redefining the FUTURE decade. Bring your answer into the light of today and what small piece of it is actionable NOW? Where is this resonating and aligning with a 2019 version of yourself?

Then, based on your success list and your answer to the above question, what is your 2020 vision for your business and for the business of YOU?

Designing a new decade begins as a collection of 3,650 opportunities. 3,650 blank slates of new days ahead in which to pivot and propel yourself forward. Every single one of those days is a window into your legacy. An invitation to be, create, explore, and chip away at this thing we call life. One 24-hour segment at a time.

While you have a decade ahead to work on design improvements, you have the ability to begin manifesting this project of YOU Version 2020 right NOW. Based on exploring the exercises in this post, begin executing your vision. Ask questions. Be present. Let go of 2019 and the past 10 years so that you can embrace the next 10. Position acceptance and self-trust at the forefront of how you lead you. One choice at a time.

Don't get bogged down in the concept of the next 10 years. Instead position clarity and intention into each new day, starting today. Then chase every one of those intentions with an in-the-moment commitment and solution toward living a legendary life!