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Don’t Get Spooked By Your Finances: The 5 Most Common Financial Fears

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"It's a spooky time of year, but your finances shouldn't be scaring you. Most of us share concerns about our money and our financial futures. It's normal, and even healthy sometimes, to be on alert when it comes to your finances. But as with any fear, your financial terrors shouldn't rule your life. Here are some tips to deal with some of the most common worries so you can leave the scaring to the ghosts and the goblins.


Medical crisis

Many fear that illness or medical emergency involving themselves or a loved one will leave them bankrupt. This is certainly a valid fear as medical catastrophes account for the highest number of bankruptcies. Keeping an emergency fund and being informed of what your health insurance covers are essential preemptive measures to take.

If the situation does unfortunately arise, ask the hospital for an itemized bill and review it carefully. Ensure that each item was actually provided during the hospital stay. If not, bring it to the attention of the hospital. Additionally, health insurance companies change their billing codes frequently. If you were charged for something that should've been covered by insurance, your doctor may have used an old code. Give your an insurance company a call to try to remedy the error.

Paying for retirement

Another of the most common financial fears is not saving enough money for retirement. Over the past several years; the pension changes, the outlook for social security, and the increase in lifespans have all caused heightened concern about retirement savings. Young people, in particular, are concerned about whether they'll be able to save enough. Thinking about retirement can certainly be stressful and scary. You may feel as though you'll have to work forever or that you'll be unable to maintain a comfortable lifestyle.

The best way to ease your mind will be to start saving as early and as much as possible. By beginning your savings as a young adult, you'll create the habit. Then, you won't even notice the money coming out of your account. Research how much your employer will match. And remember that retirement funds use compound interest. The earlier you put money into a 401(k) or an IRA account, the more it will grow over time.

Affording your child's education

Tuition rates continue to rise every year. Therefore, being able to send your children to college has become a prominent financial fear. Young parents are especially concerned about saving for their children's future because they may still be paying their own student debt. But it's never too late to start saving. You can create a savings plan at any given point. Saving something is better than saving nothing.

Additionally, creating a cost analysis for what's needed to pay for your children's schooling is sensible. This process can start around the time your oldest child is 10 or 11. You'll then be able to use this to create a savings plan. Figure out how much will be reasonable to save each year, then break it down by month.

You may also wish to discuss the cost of college with your children with age-appropriate conversations. Help them understand the significance of the cost to ensure they take it seriously. As they get older, emphasize that hard work can help them earn scholarships, which can save money. Discuss other ways in which they may be able to contribute to their college fund, such as getting a part-time job.

Losing your job

Whether it's getting fired or laid off, losing your job can be a major blow to your financial situation. Once again, it's best to be proactive to prepare for the worst. Continuing your education or learning a new skill can help make you a more marketable job candidate in case you're let go. If you have an annual review with your current boss, use this as an opportunity to gauge your status. Get a feel for where you stand and what the future of the company may look like. Additionally, at any point during your career, having a few months of living expenses saved up is a wise move.

Being held back by debt

Many people have accumulated significant debt and may fear that their debt is insurmountable. They may also be afraid of how their debt will begin to creep into other parts of their lives. Debt can affect you in a vast number of ways. It can affect the types of loans you qualify for, your mental health and even your relationship.

You may be afraid your significant other will find out how much debt you have. You may wish to keep the information to yourself and work it out alone. To face this fear, the first step is, to be honest with yourself. From there, find out how much debt you have and make a plan to tackle it. Then sit down and have a frank discussion with your significant other. You may feel better after just having the conversation.

Facing your debt head-on, and being honest with yourself and your loved ones, will help prevent you from feeling as if you're drowning. This will help your overall financial situation. In turn, your relationship with money will improve.

Having fears about your finances is entirely normal. Many of us have worried about money and what might happen to our money in unfortunate situations. But, as with other fears in life, it's essential to manage your financial worries. By being proactive and honest with yourself, you can make your financial situation less intimidating and more manageable.

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2020 is Around the Corner: Here's How To Design Your Next Decade

Personally, I am over the top excited that we are on the cusp of turning the page on not only a new year but also on a new 10-year window of opportunities and possibilities!

You may be thinking, whoa…I am just embracing the fall season…yikes… it is tough to think about a new decade!


Yet it is this groundwork, this forward thought that you put in place TODAY that will propel you and lead you into greatness in 2020 and beyond. Designing a new decade rests in your ability to vision, in your willingness to be curious, in your awareness of where you are now and what you most want to curate. Essentially, curating what's next is about tapping into today with confidence, conviction, and decision. Leading YOU starts now. This is your new next. It is your choice.

Sometimes to get to that 'next', you need to take a step back to reflect. Please pardon my asking you to spend time in yesterday. Those who know me personally, know that I created and continue to grow my business based on enabling the present moment as a springboard for living your legacy. So, indulge me here! True, I am asking you to peek into the past, yet it is only in order for you to bring the essence of that past forward into this moment called NOW.

One of the best ways to tap into what's next is to clarify what drives you. To design a new decade, ask yourself this question about the past ten years:

What worked? What were my successes?

Make a list of your achievements big and small. Don't type them, but rather use ink and paper and sit with and savor them. Move your thoughts and your successes from your head, to your heart, to your pen, to the paper. Remember that on the flip side of goals not attained and New Year's resolutions abandoned, there was more than likely some traction and action that moved you forward, even if the end result was not what you expected. Once you have a full list of a decade's worth of personal and professional accomplishments, think about how this makes you feel. Do you remember celebrating all of them? My guess is no. So, celebrate them now. Give them new life by validating them. Circle the successes that resonate with you most right now. Where can you lean into those accomplishments as you power into the decade ahead?

Now comes a tougher question, one that I used myself in my own mid-life reinvention and a question I adore because in a moment's time it provides you with a quick reconnect to your unique inner voice.

If it were 10 years ago and nothing were standing in your way, no fear or excuses to contend with…what would you do?

Don't overthink it. The brilliance of this question is that it refocuses purpose. Whatever first came to mind when you answered this for yourself is at its core a powerful insight into defining and redefining the FUTURE decade. Bring your answer into the light of today and what small piece of it is actionable NOW? Where is this resonating and aligning with a 2019 version of yourself?

Then, based on your success list and your answer to the above question, what is your 2020 vision for your business and for the business of YOU?

Designing a new decade begins as a collection of 3,650 opportunities. 3,650 blank slates of new days ahead in which to pivot and propel yourself forward. Every single one of those days is a window into your legacy. An invitation to be, create, explore, and chip away at this thing we call life. One 24-hour segment at a time.

While you have a decade ahead to work on design improvements, you have the ability to begin manifesting this project of YOU Version 2020 right NOW. Based on exploring the exercises in this post, begin executing your vision. Ask questions. Be present. Let go of 2019 and the past 10 years so that you can embrace the next 10. Position acceptance and self-trust at the forefront of how you lead you. One choice at a time.

Don't get bogged down in the concept of the next 10 years. Instead position clarity and intention into each new day, starting today. Then chase every one of those intentions with an in-the-moment commitment and solution toward living a legendary life!