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Celebrity Chefs Dish on Working With the Rich & Famous


Ever wondered what it's like to be a celebrity chef catering to the uber rich and famous? I caught up with some of the world's most decorated celebrity chefs to ask them about working with celebrities, some of their top tips for aspiring culinary chefs as well as tips for cooking more at home.

These celebrity chefs have some serious culinary chops—just ask the female celebrities they've worked for – including Oprah Winfrey, Angelina Jolie, Charlize Theron, and Hilary Swank. These world-famous celebrity chefs have perfected the art of culinary genius – and working with very rare ingredients like 24kt gold leaf and diamonds (Yes, diamonds!).

Chef Alexia Grant

Chef Alexia Grant

Known for her savory selections like shrimp & grits shooters, jambalaya croquettes, and calypso chicken, Chef Alexia Grant is the epitome of feminine beauty and is tireless in her efforts to mentor young girls. Apart from mentoring young 11 and 12th graders, she's lending her services to charitable endeavors like the hashtag movement #TakeCareofNewark where with the help of local activists the New Jersey native worked to feed over 700 less fortunate members of Newark's population. Today she works as Knicks star Carmelo Anthony and La La Anthony's personal chef. In addition, she founded her own catering company, Eat Me Up Cuisine, in October 2014.

Cuisine/Technique you're known for: I'm known for vegan and vegetarian food as well as meal plans and lifestyle dietary adjusting.

Celebs I have cooked for: I've worked a number of athletes and celebrities including Ne-Yo, Angela Simmons, Malcolm Jenkins, La La Anthony and Sanya Richards-Ross.

Best things about working for the rich: The best thing about working for people of affluence is what you learn! There is so much to be gained by being a fly on the wall. I've learned about finance, business, public relations, fine wine, other cultures and just how to be an all around adaptable person. Those have been some major life lessons.

Worst things about working for the rich: The worst thing is when your friends and family don't understand the boundaries of what you do. As a chef that's just what I am… a CHEF. Unfortunately, when you work for celebrities your friends and family tend to think you're a celebrity also. It can put a strain on your relationships and sometimes alter who you can be around or not.

Chef Alexia Grant with 4-time Olympic gold medallist, Sanya Richards-Ross.

Best piece of advice for aspiring chefs: To any aspiring chef, if you don't love it, don't do it. This is a profession of passion. In order to excel in this field, you have to have a burning desire to push through when things get hard. This isn't an industry to enter wanting fame and glory. There are definitely ways to accomplish that in this field but if that's you're only mission, you will crash and burn because its the fire within us as chefs that have people gravitate towards your food. You are what you serve, take pride in that. Pride, Passion, Professionalism. These are the 3 major keys to success.

My personal favorite food: My favorite personal food is tacos! I love tacos. In fact, if I had a food truck, tacos would be a staple!

The most in-demand universal appetizer: I would have to say… as boring as it may be..salad. Most people would say things like wings or nachos but those are just American things. In all the places I've eaten, almost every culture will start you off with some sort of salad native to that region. Hopefully the health curve is in full effect and America can catch on!

Tips for cooking more at home: To all my ladies wanting to cook more at home... my first and most important piece of advice is keep it simple!! There are tons of recipes for 30 minute meals or meals with 10 ingredients or less. Start there, get comfortable in the kitchen and with following instructions. After you've mastered a few of those then you can break into the more difficult recipes.

Chef Jack Lee

Chef Jack Lee

As former Banquet Chef of the legendary and esteemed Hotel Bel Air, in Beverly Hills, California, Chef Jack Lee boasts a stunning reputation as personal chef to celebrities and Hollywood's cognoscenti. Through his catering company, Chinoise Cuisine, he has catered to the Oscars and Oprah's wedding of the Century. He prides himself on incorporating high quality proteins, super healthy carbs, organic vegetables, amazing sauces with bold flavors that enrapture the tongue, coupled with garnishes that include 24kt gold leaf. I call it food architecture - and the sexier the better – his sculpting abilities are second to none.

Lobster Chowmein with Caviar

Cuisine/Technique you're known for: Asian Fusion, California French cuisine, French Vietnamese cuisine. I like the sous vide cooking technique, the braising technique, and slow cooking.

Celebs I have cooked for: Oprah Winfrey, President Donald Trump, Charlize Theron, Hilary Swank, Quincy Jones, Lisa Vanderpump, the Jackson Family, Mark Burnett, and Roma Downey.

Best things about working for the rich: They have a distinct palate and they appreciate refined cuisine. They also appreciate expensive and rare ingredients.

Worst things about working for the rich: It can be super demanding because they want what they want and are very picky. And everything is always last minute.

Best piece of advice for aspiring chefs: I believe every aspiring chef should work hard, do not take short cuts and cook with passion.

My personal favorite food: Meditteranean Bouillabaisse, Braised Short ribs and my $100 egg roll paired with Dom Perignon.

Most in-demand universal appetizer: Crispy Lobster Ravioli with Curried Pumpkin Sauce.

My cooking philosophy: Refinement, balance, personalization, and authenticity.

Tips for cooking more at home: Have fun and cook with all your senses. You eat with your eyes first. Beautiful, refined visual elements like a vibrant garnish or stacking items that you usually wouldn't think to stack can bring in fun and drama.

Chef Gilles Arzur, Executive Chef at the Four Seasons Resort Dubai at Jumeirah Beach

Chef Gilles Arzur

As the former Executive Chef of the Four Seasons Beverly Willshire Hotel, Chef Gilles Arzur, is known for his bold, innovative, fusion flavors. During his tenure at the Four Seasons Beverly Wilshire his team enjoyed serving up specialty dishes for President Barack Obama and The Jackson Five, among other VIPs. I had the opportunity to savour his amazing artistry while visiting Dubai earlier this year – and his skills are superb. It's no wonder as he thrived under the tutelage of his mentor, Paul Bocuse, named the top chef of the 20th Century by the Cullinary Institute of America and hailed as one of the greatest, most significant chefs of all time. As Executive Chef at the Four Seasons Resort Dubai, Gilles Arzur oversees five restaurants and caters to royalty.

Cuisine/Technique you're known for: Being raised in a small oceanside community in Brittany, in the northwest corner of France, and being mentored by Paul Bocuse – (the “pope" of modern French gastronomy), I have to say I would be most known for my Modern French Cuisine.

Celebs I have cooked for: My clientele includes celebrities, high-profile chefs, corporate leaders and heads of state. However, I strongly support and believe in full discretion for all of my clients and for the industry which is why I prefer not to mention my clients by name.

Best things about working for the rich: Not only do you get to create spectacular and personal menus, but you are designing an entire experience. From room décor to fine china – it's about evoking an emotion and setting an ambiance for that particular person or event and each dinner is unique and completely different from the previous one.

Worst things about working for the rich: You often find yourself creating menus based on a presumed diet of a client which can be misleading.

Best piece of advice for aspiring chefs: Work hard, very hard and stay humble no matter what. Keep dreaming and visualizing of what is about to come and where you want to be next.

Your personal favorite food: I love fish in any shape and form. However, when it comes to home cooking, my ultimate favorite food has to be crepes.

Most in-demand universal appetizer: I find that whenever an appetizer featuring raw tuna or mozzarella is listed on the menu, these are the most popular items and will noticeably be picked over the rest.

My cooking philosophy: First of all, I am convinced that you need passion in order to become a talented chef. Passion is what motivates you and inspires you to be great every single day. Secondly, I believe in using locally sourced ingredients - this ensures the highest quality and freshness of the product as well as knowledge of the provenance. Lastly, I feel that it is important to stay true to the location where you are cooking – the food needs to resemble the lifestyle and fit certain expectations. When you are working around the world it is of great significance to adapt your food and cooking methods to suit your surroundings.

Tips for cooking more at home: I would encourage women not to be afraid of exploring new food and recipes. Don't over-complicate things, start with ingredients that are easy to work with and if you are ever unsure about unfamiliar products – ask for professional advice to help get you started.

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Help! My Friend Is a No Show

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Help! My Friend Is a No Show

Dear Armchair Psychologist,

I have a friend who doesn't reply to my messages about meeting for dinner, etc. Although, last week I ran into her at a local restaurant of mine, it has always been awkward to be friends with her. Should I continue our friendship or discontinue it? We've been friends for a total four years and nothing has changed. I don't feel as comfortable with her as my other close friends, and I don't think I'll ever be able to reach that comfort zone in pure friendship.


Dear Sadsies,

I am sorry to hear you've been neglected by your friend. You may already have the answer to your question, since you're evaluating the non-existing bond between yourself and your friend. However, I'll gladly affirm to you that a friendship that isn't reciprocated is not a good friendship.

I have had a similar situation with a friend whom I'd grown up with but who was also consistently a very negative person, a true Debby Downer. One day, I just had enough of her criticism and vitriol. I stopped making excuses for her and dumped her. It was a great decision and I haven't looked back. With that in mind, it could be possible that something has changed in your friend's life, but it's insignificant if she isn't responding to you. It's time to dump her and spend your energy where it's appreciated. Don't dwell on this friend. History is not enough to create a lasting bond, it only means just that—you and your friend have history—so let her be history!

- The Armchair Psychologist

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