Achieving the Natural Look with Makeup

There are many women who like to wear makeup to enhance their appearance but don't necessarily want to look as though they are wearing a lot of makeup. While some may think that it is pointless to wear makeup in order to look natural, this is not the case.

Many people who have studied at beauty school in Peoria will tell you that makeup can be used to create a natural but very healthy glow. So, while you do not look like you are wearing makeup, your skin and appearance still get a helping hand. In fact, natural-looking makeup has become increasingly popular over recent years, with many celebrities opting for that healthy, natural look with the help of makeup and makeup artists.

Some Tips on Achieving the Look

There are a number of ways in which you can achieve that natural look rather than wearing makeup that is heavy and obvious. The first is to switch your foundation for a BB cream, which will both moisturize and add a healthy glow to your face. There are many BB creams on the market these days from a range of well-known manufacturers. Just as you would with foundation, you can find the one that best matches your skin color to ensure a really natural look after application. If you prefer to continue with a foundation, make sure you go for a light coverage one that will not look heavy and obvious when applied.

After applying your BB cream or foundation along with concealer, choose a neutral shade for your eyes. You can get some wonderful matte light brown shades that look great but are also very subtle. For the natural look, you won't need to wear any eyeliner but make sure you use some mascara to open up those eyes. Don't go too heavy with the mascara – just use a single coat to bring out the best in your eyes without making your lashes look too heavy.

Cream blusher is an excellent choice if you want to show off a natural glow and a dewy finish, which is definitely on-trend these days. You can choose from a number of different shades to suit your skin tone. When applying the cream blusher, apply to the apples of the cheeks and sweep upward. Also, only use a little at a time to achieve the right level of blush.

Finally, when it comes to the lips, choose a natural shade to complement your look. Light and mid-browns are a great choice as are pale pinks. Again, your skin tone and personal preference will help you to decide which color you should go for. This will give you the perfect finish for your natural look makeup.

Great for Work and Day Wear

This natural look is perfect for work or during the day when you don't want to look laden down with makeup, but you still want to look good. The great this is that it is easy to transform to a nighttime look by simply adding a more intense color to the eyes and lips.

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Please Don't Ask Me To Network

"Who are you meeting for lunch this week?"

Without fail, my former boss would ask me this question in every weekly status we had. And I dreaded the question. Because my answer was generally a stammering "Umm… No One." Occasionally I could remember what I actually had for lunch. And almost always it was sitting in my windowless cube eating a soggy sad sandwich.

I didn't understand why "who I had lunch with this week" was worthy of being a topic on our weekly status. After all, I was only 6 months into this new job. I was still figuring out how to pull data from Nielsen. I was still figuring out how to write an innovation brief. I was still trying to figure out where the bathrooms were in this maze of a building.

And despite knowing this question would come up in every weekly status, I was reluctant to change my behavior. I didn't see the value in the question. I didn't see the importance of it in my career. I didn't understand why I had to have lunch with anyone.

Because I hated the idea of having to network, to meet people, to put myself out there. Because networking was something slimy and strange and weird and scary. It made my stomach hurt, my throat go dry. And I could feel a faint headache coming on.

Even Oxford's definition of networking only reaffirmed my fears of what networking looked like: the action or process of interacting with others to exchange information and develop professional or social contacts.

Because please don't ask me to walk into a room where I don't know anyone. And stand in the corner sipping a bad glass of Chardonnay. Please don't ask me to slide my business card out and not so subtly shove it in your face. And ask you to do something for me. Please don't ask me to network. Because I hate networking.

And I used to hate networking (okay, maybe hate is too strong.) I still really dislike the term. "Networking" seemed about getting something from someone. Or someone getting something from you. A favor, a job, a referral. "Networking" seemed very transactional. And someone shoving a business card at you (which happened to me recently at event) only solidified by feelings.

And over the years, I came to really understand that networking wasn't about "the action or process of interacting with others." It was about building authentic connections. It was about meeting people who were different than you. It was about expanding my community. And creating new communities. It was tapping into more and more communities I could belong to.

And as I slowly started to change my view on networking- I mean building authentic connections- I started to realize my communities were more inclusive than I thought. My best friends from middle school. Former bosses. College Alumni I met after we had graduated. Colleagues from past companies. Vendors and agency partners I had once worked with. Colleagues I had once managed. As my family expanded, my husband, my two sister-in laws and my brother in-law. A whole host of fabulous cousin-in-laws. My baby brother as his career skyrocketed. And fellow parents in my kids' school.

I still hate networking. And I love building connections. And helping to build connections and be a bridge for other people.

Now, when I go to a large event, I try to go with a friend. We have a drink at the bar and then part ways to try and make new friends. If we don't authentically connect with other people, and we have made the effort, we always have each other to back to.

Now, I try to meet one new person a week at my company or in my broader community, or reconnect with someone I miss seeing. (This doesn't always have to be in person, can be text, Zoom or Facetime.) And if you can't commit to doing that, that you should seriously relook at your schedule. I thank my former boss for that constant reminder.

Now, I joined Luminary, a women's collaboration hub in NYC, which has been life changing for me. I am also on the advisory board. It's all about women supporting and lifting each other up- to get more money, get that next big promotion, or start their own venture. It's a built-in community of unwavering support.

Now, I am working on expanding my community of moms. Not too long ago, I worked up the nerve to ask a fellow mom in my daughter's class if she wanted to get together. She thought I meant a playdate. I meant drinks. And after one late night out drinking, I have bonded with a whole new set of badass women.

And all of these communities. I am there for my communities. And they are all there for me. Referral for a job at my company. Coaching on how to survive a bad boss. Advice on how to ask for more money. Supporting each other as we care for aging parents. Candid feedback on why they didn't get that promotion. Commiserating over a cocktail on which working parent had the worst week ever.

So please don't ask me to network. Because I hate it. And well actually I don't have a business card to give you. I haven't printed one in four years.