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7 Ways to Simplify the Process of Relocating for a New Job

If you recently got some news that you've been hired for a new job in a different city or another part of town, you're probably strongly considering the idea of relocating to take advantage of your new job opportunity. However, actually making this happen could require some significant challenges related to planning and carrying out the move in an economical and expeditious manner. After all, you'll probably have a limited amount of time to actually show up to your new job before they bring in another applicant in your absence.


To ensure you don't miss out on the opening, be sure to heed the following seven tips that will simplify the process of relocating for a new job:

1. Utilize Professional Moving Services

Preparing to work for a new employer can be a hectic process because your primary concern will be doing a good job on your first day of work. During this often nerve-racking process, it can be difficult to keep track of all the moving that needs to be done. Plus, if you're really trying to rush through the entire moving process, you could wind up forgetting some things, improperly packing fragile items, dropping your belongings, or even injuring yourself.

A quick online search should point you in the right direction of a reputable company. For instance, if you're in the Toronto area and looking to relocate, you'd find professional moving services like those provided by Philips Moving. They're widely considered to be one of the best moving companies in the region, taking pride in on-time delivery, professional packing, and friendly staff. Simply search your region and look for someone with the key services you need.

2. Examine Housing Options Before Applying for the Job

If your options are relatively wide open in terms of where you're searching for a job, it would be best to look in places where you've already vetted the housing or rental market. You don't want to wind up moving to a location where the cost of living is going to completely negate the additional income you'll be earning at your new job. In an ideal scenario, you'll be able to increase your annual salary while also decreasing your monthly expenses.

3. Keep a Tally of Your Office or Work-Related Items

It's always a good practice to create a comprehensive check list of every item that you own before you start packing things into boxes. You may also want to label your boxes and specify which box the item was put in during the moving process. That way, you'll be able to quickly find specific items. Generally, it's best to keep all work-related items consolidated into a single large box so that you won't have trouble finding any mandatory tools, gear, or equipment. Starting with a list also ensures that you won't lose anything along the way without realizing it.

4. Consider Leaving Some Items Behind and Replacing Them Later On

Taking everything you own with you might seem like the best option because it will keep you from making unnecessary purchases later, but you have to ask yourself whether certain items are really worth the hassle. For example, any worn or undesirable furniture items should be left behind.

5. Pay for An Extra Month at Your Current Residence

You might be wondering why you would ever want to pay for an extra month in rent at your current place when you're getting ready to move? Well, having that additional leeway will let you focus solely on showing up to your new job prepared, as you'll have an entire month plus the grace period to get your belongings out of your current home. In some cases, you may be able to ask the landlord to count your deposit towards the last month rent, that way, you won't have to be out of pocket to buy yourself some extra time.

6. Get Help from Friends and Family

This one is very straightforward: don't shoulder the entire weight of the entire process yourself – have some of your friends and family members help out and you'll be getting some free or low-cost assistance in your move.

7. Use Your Accumulated Reward Points

Finally, one more way you can reduce the financial burden of the move is to spend all of the travel or gas reward points that you have on any of your credit cards. This is a worthwhile technique to keep in mind because you might've otherwise overlooked this idea and wound up overspending on fuel or travel expenses.

Give Yourself Time to Become Acquainted with the Area

Navigating the city streets and dealing with local traffic are two of the most stressful adjustments that you'll encounter after moving to any new area. Thus, it's best to give yourself enough time to explore and get to know the back roads and freeways before your first day of work. That way, if you wind up having to take a detour due to a traffic jam or congestion, you won't be completely dependent on the often faulty or inefficient re-routing provided by your phone's GPS.

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Tempted To Dial Your Ex: 5 Ways To Know Whether Or Not You Should Contact An Old Flame

Thinking of ringing up your ex during these uncertain times? Maybe you want an excuse to contact your ex, or maybe you genuinely feel the need to connect with someone on an emotional level. As a matchmaker and relationship expert, I was surprised at the start of the coronavirus quarantine when friends were telling me that they were contacting their exes! But as social distancing has grown to be more than a short-term situation, we must avoid seeking short-term solutions—and resist the urge to dial an ex.

It stands to reason that you would contact an ex for support. After all, who knows you and your fears better than an ex? This all translates into someone who you think can provide comfort and support. As a matchmaker, I already know that people can spark and ignite relationships virtually that can lead to offline love, but lonely singles didn't necessarily believe this or understand this initially, which drives them straight back to a familiar ex. You only need to tune into Love Is Blind to test this theory or look to Dina Lohan and her virtual boyfriend.

At the start of lockdown, singles were already feeling lonely. There were studies that said as much as 3 out of 4 people were lonely, and that was before lockdown. Singles were worried that dating someone was going to be off limits for a very long time. Now when you factor in a widespread pandemic and the psychological impact that hits when you have to be in isolation and can't see anyone but your takeout delivery person, we end up understanding this urge to contact an ex.

So, what should you do if you are tempted to ring up an old flame? How do you know if it's the wrong thing or the right thing to do in a time like this? Check out a few of my points before deciding on picking up that phone to text, much less call an ex.

Before You Dial The Ex...

First, you need to phone a friend! It's the person that got you through this breakup to begin with. Let them remind you of the good, the bad and the ugly before taking this first step and risk getting sucked back in.

What was the reason for your breakup? As I mentioned before, you could get sucked back in… but that might not be a bad thing. It depends; when you phoned that friend to remind you, did she remind you of good or bad things during the breakup? It's possible that you both just had to take jobs in different cities, and the breakup wasn't due to a problem in the relationship. Have these problems resolved if there were issues?

You want to come from a good place of reflection and not let bad habits make the choice for you.

Depending on the reason for the breakup, set your boundaries for how much contact beforehand. If there was abuse or toxic behaviors in the relationship, don't even go there. You can't afford to repeat this relationship again.

If you know you shouldn't be contacting this ex but feel lonely, set up a support system ahead of time. Set up activities or things to fall back on to resist the urge. Maybe you phone a different friend, join a virtual happy hour for singles, or binge watch Netflix. Anything else is acceptable, but don't phone that ex.

Write down your reasons for wanting to contact the ex. Ask yourself if this is worth the pain. Are you flea-bagging again, or is there a friendship to be had, which will provide you with genuine comfort? If it's the latter, it's okay to go there. If it's an excuse to go back together and make contact, don't.

Decide how far you are willing to take the relationship this time, without it being a rinse and repeat. If you broke up for reasons beyond your control, it's okay. If your ex was a serial cheater, phone a friend instead.

If there was abuse or toxic behaviors in the relationship, don't even go there. You can't afford to repeat this relationship again.

As life returns to a more normal state and you adjust to the new normal, we will slowly begin to notice more balance in our lives. You want to come from a good place of reflection and not let bad habits make the choice for you. Some do's and don'ts for this time would be:

  • Do: exercise ⁠— taking care of you is important during this time. It's self-care and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
  • Do: shower, brush your teeth, and get out of your sweats.
  • Don't: be a couch potato.
  • Don't: drink or eat excessively during this time. Again, remember to maintain a healthy lifestyle.
  • Do: think positive thoughts everyday and write down the 3 things you are grateful for. Look at the impact of John Krasinksi's SGN. It's uplifting and when you feel good, you won't want to slide backwards.
  • Don't: contact a toxic ex. It's a backward move in a moment of uncertainty that could have a long term impact. Why continue flea bagging yourself?