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4 Reasons to Clean Up the Traces on the Internet After a Successful Date

The Internet helps you instantly find any necessary facts. It is evident that people are looking for everything there: from cats' photos to historical facts. Have you ever thought about the fact that there could also be the dossier on yourself? The girl you have recently met also knows how to use search tools and social networks and here is what you need to know in order not to appear in a stupid situation.


What if the girl you met was about to dig up all the possible information about you on the Internet? Numerous people now use the Internet to find a partner and it is well-known about the effectiveness of online dating Ukraine especially on Ladadate. Are you sure that the girl you have met wouldn't be interested in finding more information about you? How to make her see only what is needed and nothing more?

Your Job

41% of girls (almost a half!) will look for your account on professional social networks. It is a part of the evolution - to choose a smart and qualified man. Such a person will be able to provide the family with everything necessary. This is a guarantee of a good future and not just a wish to find a rich husband. Describe your career achievements in more detail - in any case, it will be useful in the future.

Your Fridays

62% of young ladies do not welcome photos from drunk parties. Of course, when you meet your friends - this is just a common thing. But she definitely should not see how you portray a bugler with a beer bottle and do other nonsense. At least not this time. Delete stupid pictures and also check photos on friends' accounts.

Your Jokes

That's not a tremendous surprise that a sense of humor adorns a man in the eyes of a woman (and in virtual reality, too). Sometimes, this is the only way to be well received during the online conversation as you don't have the possibility to use gestures and so on. But there is a couple of issues. If almost every joke of yours begins with "I" or comes down to criticizing and ridiculing other people's shortcomings, know: such humor does not attract most people, but rather quite the opposite. You should also think about cutting down the amount of sarcasm - of course, there are women who like it but this is really not a good option for the first impression.

Your Rubbish

A new acquaintance is a great reason to get rid of all online junk. Some old blogs, accounts, other pages, the contents of which slightly shock you, not to mention strangers... Look on the network for tools and services to remove yourself from the Internet and erase your entire dubious history.

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Help! My Friend Is a No Show

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Help! My Friend Is a No Show

Dear Armchair Psychologist,

I have a friend who doesn't reply to my messages about meeting for dinner, etc. Although, last week I ran into her at a local restaurant of mine, it has always been awkward to be friends with her. Should I continue our friendship or discontinue it? We've been friends for a total four years and nothing has changed. I don't feel as comfortable with her as my other close friends, and I don't think I'll ever be able to reach that comfort zone in pure friendship.

-Sadsies

Dear Sadsies,

I am sorry to hear you've been neglected by your friend. You may already have the answer to your question, since you're evaluating the non-existing bond between yourself and your friend. However, I'll gladly affirm to you that a friendship that isn't reciprocated is not a good friendship.



I have had a similar situation with a friend whom I'd grown up with but who was also consistently a very negative person, a true Debby Downer. One day, I just had enough of her criticism and vitriol. I stopped making excuses for her and dumped her. It was a great decision and I haven't looked back. With that in mind, it could be possible that something has changed in your friend's life, but it's insignificant if she isn't responding to you. It's time to dump her and spend your energy where it's appreciated. Don't dwell on this friend. History is not enough to create a lasting bond, it only means just that—you and your friend have history—so let her be history!



- The Armchair Psychologist

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